Text: There is a moment when you’re learning to deadlift that background moves into foreground, like those paintings full of dots that required you to look beyond the foreground into the background, so that the picture becomes apparent. #ThisIs55
Training with Jeana Fanelli is shifting the tectonic plates of my being.
There is an earthquake at the core of my being and I am living and loving it.
Then as I approached my grief anniversary in November, the month in which I also became, finally, postmenopausal, lifting became the way I mended the mind/body split that trauma so often causes.
For too long, my body was an afterthought.
And now here we are, finally, talking
When I wrote about that on Instagram, someone recommended this book and after reading the introduction online, I thought "Fuck, yes!"
An international initiative is calling for action against homophobia in UK men’s football following a series of “damaging” homophobic incidents in recent weeks. thepinknews.com/2023/01/18/cal…
A statement released by Football v Homophobia has called on the Football Association (FA), professional clubs, media, police and prosecution authorities to crackdown on homophobia in the sport. footballvhomophobia.com/homophobia-in-…
I wrote this about the violent misogyny that accompanies men's football across the world.
The violence that goes home with the men’s game is a wholly-owned subsidiary of patriarchy. You would be naive to think it is limited to targeting women & children. feministgiant.com/p/essay-when-f…
I met Nobel Laureate Annie Ernaux last year and told her how moved I was by the recounting of her "illegal" abortion in Happening and shared with her the story of my "illegal" abortion.
Unless the United States develops the stomach for a long-overdue reckoning with the white supremacist Christian theocracy that has been unabashed in its destruction of Roe v Wade, abortion rights will not be the only rights it destroyed. cnn.com/2023/01/20/pol…#RoeVsWade
This is a white supremacist Christian movement driven by white supremacist, Christian zealots who are patriarchal to the core.
And plenty of white women have helped build that theocracy
U.S. media tiptoe around all of this because these white Christian zealots are the fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, and relatives of white reporters.
It's hard to see theocrats when they look like you
It is telling that police are thought to be our protectors from rapists and predators when they themselves are too often the rapists and predators. feministgiant.com/p/essay-fuck-t…
It is telling that police are thought to be our protectors from rapists and predators when they do very little to protect us from rapists and predators.
David Carrick, who worked for an elite armed unit in London’s Metropolitan Police, admitted 49 offences, including 24 rapes, against 12 women over 18 years. vice.com/en/article/5d3…
I was sexually assaulted twice during Hajj in 1982. I was 15 years old. I started #MosqueMeToo in 2018 after a Pakistani Muslim woman called Sabica Khan said she'd been in sexually assaulted during pilgrimage.
It is enough for me that Evelyn gets to beat people up AND have a breakdown of sorts because fuck, yes please! That was the essence of my perimenopause on any given day.
THAT’S EXACTLY WHAT PERIMENOPAUSE IS! It is everything, It is everywhere. And it is all at once.