Thread by @Women_Stand_Up

I think if you ask any #transwidows what turned their #AGP husbands on most they would say a mirror.

I'd find my clothes ruined with baby oil because he'd been dressing up when I was at work. So many split seams and zips.

And he'd leave his 'trophies' on the floor for me...

Nothing turns an #AGP on more than the pornified imagine of himself. They literally create their perfect slutty woman. This is why the dressing up is not age appropriate and you see 50/60/70 year old men dressed as school girls.
Odd fact (NOT), trans identified women don't do it.

I'm a person who has a couple of drawers full of knickers.
He would steal used women's knickers and tuck them in my drawer.
When I found out I went ballistic. He laughed and said it turned him on to see I'd worn them without realising a)they weren't mine and b) they were soiled.

#Transwidows stories sound incredulous...they're not, that was 16 years of my life.
You can ask any transwidow and they will recount very similar scenarios. And if you think it sounds awful, just imagine what it felt like to live it every single day.
Then add the violence!

I could write a book.

Back then (1993 to 2009) there was no twitter etc, I didn't have SM deliberately because all I'd seen it used for was porn so I was very resistant to anything online.
So I had no idea other women were going through the same.
I was completely isolated.

If you want to know anything about #AGP ask a #transwidow

We know far, far, far more than any academic, literature or 'expert' about them. That's why TRAs hate us so much...we KNOW their secrets.

#askmeanything

#transwidow tip:

Don't keep your dirty laundry basket in a bathroom that can be used by visitors.
It won't be the washing machine that eats your knickers.

#justsaying