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Childless Cat Lady. Responsible for the death of civilisation. Quite like crochet.
May 4, 2024 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
Had an interesting encounter in the library yesterday. I was studying there with a friend on our laptops sat next to some computers. A woman comes in loudly saying ā€˜you should be in the VIP section’ to which we both, rather perplexed said ā€˜sorry, what?’

Cue a tirade of abuse… …and insults for the fact we owned our own laptops. A barrage of anger against us for being ā€˜rich, white and entitled’ and basically implying that we shouldn’t be in the library as it’s not meant for people ā€˜like you’.

She then spent an hour ranting about how awful…
Jan 11, 2024 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
TW: This is not a nice story.

Yesterday I heard of the suicide of a woman I met some years ago. She transitioned to male and had been taken testosterone for years. She was young, disabled, autistic.

She unexpectedly fell pregnant & lost the baby. The information we have… …at this point is that she was told the years of testosterone had a big part to play in why she lost the baby.

She blamed herself, and so this week she ended her life.

I am heartbroken at a medical ideology that tells young women & men that these hormones are life saving…
Oct 30, 2023 • 4 tweets • 1 min read
To make it clear to begin with: I abhor violence on all sides.

A few years back now I would have been on the Free Palestine marches thinking that it was the ā€˜right side’.

Then I had the ā€˜wrong thoughts’ for a leftie which opened my eyes to the lies my ā€˜side’ told as wellšŸ‘‡ I read books by ex Muslims and by Jewish authors.

I watched what happened to Isreal last month.

I do not condone the killing of civilians in retribution.

But I can see the antisemitism that is being widely espoused under the banner of progressive politics & am horrified
Feb 23, 2023 • 10 tweets • 3 min read
Why are all women controlled by the threat of male violence, and even if it’s #NotAllMen it’s enough to make all women act differently? A thread 🧵 šŸ‘‡

My 17 yr old niece gets the bus to work, college & the gym. She is young, blonde, pretty & kind. She has become a target… …for predatory men. From comments, staring, ā€˜jokes’ & now the inevitable & classic ā€˜creepy man on bus’. It started as soon as she hit puberty & it’s only getting worse.

The other day a man sat next to her on an otherwise empty bus. This is not a neutral act. It is an act of…
Oct 31, 2021 • 12 tweets • 3 min read
Happy Halloween! Normally every year I use this day to remind you all that this is Samhain - A night to remember the dead. But this year, let me take you on a little history lesson about witches.

The majority of women targeted & murdered were not witches šŸ§µšŸ‘‡ Witchcraft absolutely was a form of paganism & practiced well before Christianity came to our shores. But mostly this was using herbal medicines alongside the odd bit of praying/worshipping the goddess.

Women were the healers & historians & if they were good at their job…
Oct 18, 2021 • 9 tweets • 3 min read
What was discussed at #FiLiA2021 šŸ§µšŸ‘‡

How important music is to women in Iran (a place where women can be arrested for dancing)

How to bridge the divide between younger & older feminists

How to help in the fight to get prostitution charges expunged from women’s… … criminal records

What we can do to help women fleeing the #TigrayGenocide

How women from all political parties can support each other to make sure women are included in policy & law

The onslaught of abuse women politicians face & how we can fight back & demand better…
Aug 10, 2021 • 5 tweets • 1 min read
The silence from mainstream women’s orgs about this is deafening. Are they all going to sit there and pretend that ā€˜challenging’ women on their ā€˜bigotry’ when accessing a rape crisis centre & requesting a woman is ok? That asking a rape victim to ā€˜reframe their trauma’ is ok? The more I think about this the more angry I get. I was made to 're-frame my trauma' as somehow being my fault because, in the words of the policeman we called, 'victims and abusers chose each other from across a crowded room'. I was made to feel that I was responsible..