How many times have you heard the phrase: "All men want is sex?".
There are things many men want more than sex.
In fact, there is one thing. And it happens to be the one thing some women find hard to give.
If you like don't learn. Come for me.
Due to popular demand, let me explain my thoughts so that some can make informed opinion.
This is not to indict anyone... rather, it's for greater understanding. Sometimes it is important to question things.
Remember your school parties. If a guy wanted to hold a girl in his arms, he had to scan the room, walk across the room with everyone watching and ask the girl to dance. If she accepted, he was in heaven. If she refused he was in hell.
Truth be told, we have beautiful fabrics in #Africa.
Bògòlanfini or bogolan is a handmade Malian cotton fabric traditionally dyed with fermented mud. It has an important place in traditional Malian culture & has, more recently, become a symbol of Malian cultural identity.
The Ndop, or dze ndouop or nji Ndop cloth is a resist stitched, indido- dyed cloth of Bamileke origin in the Western region of #Cameroon. It is used ceremonies.
Some of us need to learn that planning & preparedness translates into success when it meets chance.
You come to Twitter & tweet your business with pictures & the usual "pls RT, my customer maybe on your TL". The kind people on Twitter proceed to RT you to the moon.
Next thing, you have 5000, 10000, 50000 RTs, hundreds of thousands of replies, and the DM becomes jammed with follow up questions & orders.
You then go back to original tweet to "thread" that "you are thankful but overwhelmed with responses."
You ask responders to "wait" as you will "get round to responding" etc etc.... There is no info on where or how to get said product... Your initial "help my ministry tweet" just opened Pandora's box for you.
You are overwhelmed because you didn't anticipate the power of twitter
As part of civil society, we've been saying that since the early 2000s, the govt of #Cameroon has put its repression and oppression in policy, creating a legal framework to increasingly punish dissent, stifle free speech & instill fear in anyone who opposes it. #FreeMimiMefo
In Dec 2014, #Cameroon’s legislature passed a controversial anti-terrorism legislation that includes the death penalty for citizens who, either as individuals or in a group, carry out, abet, or sponsor terrorism. The provisions drew global condemnation. #FreeMimiMefo
In the times we are in, it is out responsibility to raise a generation of people who will turn up their noses at despotic authority and speak truth to power.
There are times when being a part of a minority bold enough to fearlessly question authority becomes exasperating & frustrating. Especially when you go at it, expect a following, only to realize you are on your own.
Despite the fact you fighting with truth & for ALL.
Our history is telling. We have mainly had decisions made for us.
By the clan
By the chief
By the elders
By the men of God
By the gods & deities
By the system...
Hardly have we made personal, individual decisions.
Hardly have we questioned decision makers.
@cfozin@FRauCameroun@G_Thibault_Fr So sorry to hear this happened to you. When we being to let the world know, we begin to take steps in confronting the issues that keep us down. In may little ways, we are the solutions to many of these problems.