I’d like new BDSM practitioners to do 2 things:

1. Invest in professional and personal development

Start with the book “Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission” then read everything you can get your hands on.

This will help you develop a language around BDSM, your interests, desires, and boundaries. 2. Take classes from REPUTABLE practitioners.

Line webinars are cute, but find workshops that are in-person to allow you to develop hands-on skills.

If you have the time, apprentice at a commercial dungeon. Dungeons may not earn a lot of money as being independent, but the experience of shadowing other Dommes & hands on training is important.

Want to know what it takes to get my grandson to Michigan for his Great-Great Grandmother’s 100th birthday?

Buckle up, here goes.

#disabled #gtubedependent #birthinjury #braindisease #specialneedskids 3 pieces of regular checked luggage, 3 checked pieces of medical equipment & supplies, 4 carry on's, including 1 train case w/ medical supplies, 1 wheelchair, 1 gait trainer, & 1 pack of bubble wrap so the gait trainer doesn’t get broken. #travel

My family and I fly home in less than 48 hours for my grandmother's birthday. In addition to the new development regarding masking on flights, I also have:

Accompanying my youngest to the tailor
Then to get a root canal
Then taking the boy for a haircut I also get to schedule content for the week
And am speaking on a panel the same day I'm flying out.

Not to mention the boy is on spring break and due to the shortage of home attendants (because of COVID,) I have zero help during the day until 5:30 pm.