The Ultimate Guide: Mastering the Art of Cunnilingus

Welcome to this guide on the long-forgotten and mystical art of cunnilingus.

Actually, it’s not long forgotten, and it’s not all that mystical. It’s just that most people don’t know how to do it.

The result? Most women are NOT satisfied when they receive cunnilingus.

Men and women are often ill-informed on performing the tongue tango, and it’s not their fault. After all, many of us gained our vast vag knowledge from:

Porn
Friends’ experiences (who learned from porn)
Past sexual encounters

None of these are great. Of course, learning from your partner is the best of the bunch, but even that can lead you astray if they were insecure or nervous about giving you negative feedback.

Improving your downtown game isn’t difficult. These suggestions are based on many researches by interviewing women (gay and straight) and intimacy coaches to find out what really works.

With their advice, you’ll be able to bring her to the promised land and enjoy more closeness in your relationship.

What's more! There are some spicy tips on how to take her pleasure to new heights using your fingers, toys, and more. Enjoy reading and practice to perfection.
1. Pregame: Treat her like you want it

Foreplay is super important. But this is not it. It is like warming up before the game. But before that, you have to let her know you want to play.

Certain women can feel uncomfortable receiving oral sex.

She may be insecure about the appearance of her genitals, her scent or taste, or even having the focus all on her—women may feel undeserving of the act of oral sex.

Your job is to make her feel appreciated and desired.

Remember that if a woman feels uncomfortable or insecure during oral sex, she may have more trouble reaching orgasm.

Make it clear to her that you will savor every minute of the experience and that you are as turned on as she is.

Coffee, Cake and Cunnilingus
Do you know that couple of days back was Cake and Cunnilingus Day? Such an amazing thing it is !
This arose out of Steak and Blow-Job Day, which came as a response to Valentine's Day perhaps ...
If we continued this wonder what would be next? There is such skill, such an art, such possibility in the experience of oral pleasure, the Yoni Kiss.
There is so much to say, to share with you about this amazing, delicious, sensual, heady experience.

If you are looking for some great positions to awaken her A-Spot then here's a few to get you started.
Her A-Spot requires time to become stimulated so be sure to work up towards the big 'O' As this area is particularly deeper inside her vagina be sure to use lubrication to ensure maximum pleasure for you both

For sure these are daring and fun too. And that’s orgasmic already even planning it out . Let me know your views 🔥🔥 BJ or cunnilingus while driving

Most of us may be familiar with the term creampie. But what is the significant interest and shift towards this kink and the pleasures it can bring - let’s understand more about it

What does intimacy mean to you? It may not always come easy, especially since there's always a chance you could get hurt, but the health benefits that come with it are hard to beat. A few ways you can nurture intimacy include:
❤️ Making a point to show your appreciation

❤️ Making an effort to learn about each other

❤️ Setting aside time for each other

❤️ Unplugging and focusing on each other

Its a fact that most of us did not receive quality sex ed. If we did receive sexual anatomy lessons, they often centered on procreation, not pleasure. And as the clitoris’ sole purpose is pleasure, it has often been eliminated entirely from anatomy conversations. #sexed #anatomy We all need to understand sexual anatomy better instead of focusing on reproduction, we want to talk pleasure. Talking about anatomy in a way that highlights pleasure can help challenge shameful, embarrassing, and incorrect messages we have received about our bodies and genitals

While double penetration unfortunately has often got a porn stigma attached to it, explored in the correct way can be a mind blowing. Women have many delicious nerve endings in anus and vulva, by stimulating both at the same time can potentially reach incredible pleasure levels Many think that double penetration has to involve two men however it does not. It can take place with one person dual penetrating someone, or a combination of three, or an individual double penetrating themselves.

Women are multi orgasmic, quite naturally.
Yet scary statistics indicate 80% of them don’t O from intercourse.
How can this be?
Are men and women so fundamentally flawed that our greatest opportunity for pleasure will likely end in unfulfillment?
I don’t believe so. Despite the wide availability of sexual content, little is understood about female sexuality.
I mean, is WOMEN pleasure really just about a clitoris? Well, how can women actually be blaming men when really they know so little about their own bodies?

The way we approach sex that can make it into a sacrament; a ritual; a slowing down the process, a conscious breathing process so that lust, urgency and likes and dislikes can dissolve. Normally we see our partner as an object of satisfaction; it anytime separates beings. Anytime we fail to see the unity that lies behind the diversity, we’ve just closed our awareness to higher reality.

Squirting !!I Any women would looooove to start squirting. But not sure how? Is it peeing? Is it a different fluid, but how to make it come out? It all seems so mysterious, so here is some guidance.#squirt First of all, a big YES to your goal. What you want is absolutely possible, Deborah Sundahl, author of Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot, have got some great information for you. So let’s demystify squirting, and help you figure out what’s happening there. #squirt

The anxious - avoidant trap

When two people in a couple have colliding intimacy needs, the relationship becomes more of a storm than a safe haven. Let me give you an example:🧵#intimacy #intimate #love Let me explain about a couple who approached me with such an issue. Hubby loved going out with his friends. He loved his wife a lot, and took care of all her needs. Which his wife agreed.🧵

So many people I meet in this line live in their own fantasy version of sex - Instant, fast, and hard intercourse. Not surprisingly soon enough one or both gets bored or develop some kind of sexual dysfunction since the act no longer appeals to the brain as interesting.🧵 Our bodies crumble under the undue pressure on them - that we derive from the stupid porn. And hence there is performance anxiety, vaginal constriction, low sexual desire, and even affairs out of sexual boredom.🧵