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Jun 13, 2020 • 48 tweets • 9 min read
My name is Wasilah Ibrahim, I’m from Niger state and this is my #SuvivorSeries.
I’m from a family of 7; we lived together with my parents and 5 siblings. Our house was quite small, that my siblings and I slept in the living room while my parents slept in their room.
Jun 3, 2020 • 17 tweets • 5 min read
For this weeks #everydayheroes we’ll be focusing on Hafsatu’s story #jarumamagzine#arewa#sheroes
My husband's dream was to have an orphanage one day. He loves kids a lot. We've been married for 6years before we adopted our little angel, Zahra. People always think the adoption idea was mine, but it was my husband's. He is a very supportive partner.
May 30, 2020 • 46 tweets • 9 min read
My name is Khalid Abdul Hameed I am 32 years old from Kano state. This is my #SuvivorSeries. #jarumamagazine
I lived a very comfortable life with my wife Amina and my two girls Samira and Habiba. I’m a businessman so, I own and run several businesses in Abuja. My parents live in Kano, so, every December and Eid we travelled there to spend the holidays with them.
May 28, 2020 • 11 tweets • 3 min read
#ThroughHisEyes
Dear Arewa Ladies,
Today I'll be sharing some advice with the unmarried sisters. To avoid ending in tears you should consider 3 factors before getting into relationships. Although in the end everything is destined to be, we do our best to be safe than sorry
So; CULTURAL DIFFERENCES/FAMILY BACKGROUND, TIMING and AGE GAP. Even though now that I think about it, the subsequent ones both depend on the first. You have to be realistic and honest with yourself. What is your culture like?
May 16, 2020 • 44 tweets • 9 min read
My name is Samir Abdulazeez, I am from Gombe State and this is my survivor series. #jarumamagazine#suvivorseries#staysafe
I come from a decent family of 4 and I am the first child. I graduated from university in 2014 with a 1st Class degree in Petroleum Chemistry. After being unemployed for 2 years, I started selling quality male footwear and materials to make ends meet.
May 9, 2020 • 46 tweets • 10 min read
My name is Umaimah,I am an indigene of katsina state,I come from a humble family of 19 and extra family members living with us. My father was the eldest son and bread winner in his family and although we were educated, we didn't have much.
I’ve always been the book worm so, when my family started making a fuss about me getting older, they would blame it on boko. They felt I made it a priority, girls married early in my family so when I was 27 and still no prospect of marriage a family interventions was arranged
May 2, 2020 • 36 tweets • 7 min read
My name is Maryam and this is my story of growing up in an abusive home. I am from Yola in Adamawa state but I was born and raised in Kano.
Growing up, I didn’t have the ideal family. My mom met my dad when she was 18 and after what was supposed to be a relationship, things went south. They met on a Friday, on her way to school and as she told me he followed her around. Since that day, her life was never the same.
Jan 17, 2020 • 26 tweets • 15 min read
Relationships have always been complicated from the very beginning of time.
My name is Zainab Salihu, I am from Niger state but grew up in Kano, I am the first born of my parents. #DIVORCEDIARIES#Jaruma
People judge you for making mistakes when they have not been in your shoes.
My mother died when giving birth to my brother when I was 5 and 2 years later my father married my mother's cousin who at the time was a divorcee with a daughter. #DivorceDiaries#Jaruma
Jan 10, 2020 • 35 tweets • 12 min read
MY NAME IS SADIYA JUBRIL, I AM FROM KEBBI STATE but I live in Kaduna. I was the first born in my family and my father died when I was young. I met my husband Kabir at a friend's wedding I attended in Kano in 2013.
#DivorceDiaries
He was among the grooms friends and he was so good looking all the girls including me,had eyes for him but he didn't seem to notice us, he just chatted away on his phone. #DivorceDiaries
Jan 3, 2020 • 50 tweets • 17 min read
My name is Salisu Chiroma, I come from Jigawa and I want to share my #DivorceDiaries with you.
I met my wife hafsah after my parents insisted that I couldn't possibly travel out of the country without being married.
A thread...
You see I had given up on love a long time ago since my girlfriend of four years dumped me just after our university days to get married to a "ready made",I was devasted because we had made so many plans for our future together... #DivorceDiaries.
Nov 13, 2019 • 58 tweets • 32 min read
My name is Zainab Mai Pampo. I am 26 years old. I am from Yobe state. I would like to share my #divorcediaries with you. @yashafeni #DivorceDiaries#DomesticViolenceinNN
I got married very early in life. I was in my first year in the university. I married my distant cousin, AbdulSamad (Abdul). I hardly knew him, to be honest.But it was the Fulani way; we were arranged for each other. Everyone said I was lucky #DivorceDiaries#DomesticViolenceinNN
Nov 11, 2019 • 75 tweets • 52 min read
MY NAME IS RAMATU FAGGE. I AM 45 YEARS OLD. I AM FROM BAUCHI STATE. I WAS MARRIED TO MALLAM GARBA ABUBAKAR. I AM MOTHER TO FIVE BEAUTIFUL CHILDREN; I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY DIVORCE DIARIES WITH YOU.
RECAP S01E02: My name is Barrister Aliyu Ahmed and I would like to share my #DivorceDiaries with you.
I’m 44yo, a lawyer from Jigawa STATE, and the chief Legal Officer of a new generation bank. I met my wife at law school. Her name: Barrister Aisha Malumfashi. [A thread]
Aisha was my wife for 10 years. She was a powerhouse of intellect. What attracted me to her was her brilliance in class always answering questions even during group discussions. Her contributions were always brilliant and thought provoking. I was floored #DivorceDiaries
Mar 16, 2018 • 62 tweets • 21 min read
#DivorceDiaries
MY NAME IS SADIYA LAWAL. I AM 29 YEARS OLD. I AM FROM BAUCHI STATE. I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY DIVORCE DIARIES WITH YOU. #DivorceDiaries
Mar 9, 2018 • 78 tweets • 27 min read
#DivorceDiaries
MY NAME IS SHAFA UMAR. I AM 40 YEARS OLD. I AM FROM ADAMAWA STATE. I WAS MARRIED TO ALI UMAR. I WOULD LIKE TO SHARE MY DIVORCE DIARIES WITH YOU. #DivorceDiaries