I hope you'll find this helpful. Again, these are my thoughts based on my experiences. We all have much more to learn.
Whether it is family or friends, this is the essential question I get most often.
It's nice to have solidarity, joint causes, alignment with people you love, and enjoy associating with but the topic of justice and human rights is creating an impasse.
You've emerged from your lifelong brainwashing. They have not. Systemic racism has a brainwashing effect.
The brainwashing impact hasn't really hit home for them.
They can't believe that folks who are otherwise sensible can be this clueless
Brainwashing seems like a heavy word for it, but it's exactly what it is. The systems of our society reinforce it--even if not always complicit in a connected way.
If you're told over and over how great and available the American Dream is by teachers, businesses, fictional characters on TV, and politicians, you'll believe it's for all.
For those not brought here in chains or not descended from those born in chains? Sure.
Do one a day or one a week. Do something.