12 WAYS TO AVOID UNNECESSARY PRESSURES IN LIFE. #thread
2. A man whose wife is pregnant has a good 9 months to prepare, the same as the #pregnant woman in question. They should even plan for the worse and only seek help when they can’t meet up.
3. Rent a house you can pay conveniently. Don’t live in a house you struggle to pay, there is no award. In the same light, Put your kids in schools you can afford because expensive schools don't guarantee good results. Just ensure they attend a good #affordable #school.
4. Some problems in our lives don’t just pop up, if you don't own a home, you knew you would pay rent... the same goes for utility bills/ school fees. So it’s not an emergency, but even in an emergency try your best to be prepared for rainy days and avoid #unnecessary insults.
5. Grow your own vegetables if you must, together with your family/ partners you can develop a farm. Even if it is not for commercial purposes, but have your own spinach, milk, fruits, chickens & eggs at least. This is what real wealth is, not spending your money on the rich.
6. Calculate how long you would survive if you were fired from work. Don’t be too dependent on a salary. At least create a business that can pay for your basic needs. (Utility bills/ transport/ rent/ groceries) #dayjobVsnightjob
7. Some people don’t earn much, but have Cars/ TV/ internet subscriptions they can’t afford, start with what you can, GoTV or an alternative, share costs where possible, and save your income to upgrade later. It's not a competition, but even if it was...
8. Eat healthy meals; drink enough water; take lots of fruits and exercise to keep yourself healthy. Prevention is better than cure. Some depend on fast food restaurants every day when at work, try to prepare from home. It's cheaper and healthier.
9. Take advantage of local foods and fruits in season from your local markets, it's cheaper and healthier. You can be creative with your meals. Nobody needs to see you carrying a shopping bag from Shoprite or Checkers every day.
10. Don’t copy your neighbor’s INSTAGRAM lifestyle; If she earns well let her live her life. If he doesn’t have the responsibilities you have, don’t go out partying with him #irresponsibly. Don’t just fall for trends/ brands, wear clean well-ironed clothes. You'll look smart.
11. Keep your circle small, not every family member or old classmate or people you meet at church/ work/ club should know your plans. Keep only friends that have senses! But remember, you attract who you are. No wonder you have been dating the same person in different bodies. 🙄
12. Above all things, have the fear of God & be prayerful, you cannot be that naïve; thinking that nature & seasons- earth’s orbit around the sun including your amazingly designed blood, digestion, and nervous systems just came from an “accidental explosion.” BOOM!!! The end.😉
