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6 Oct, 5 tweets, 1 min read
Chris Rock is right: “Unconditional love is for women and dogs. A man is only loved on the condition that he provide something”

Except for one thing: God

Listen... I have no dog in this fight, but conceptually speaking, this is the only “out” for a man who truly “needs” that...
Unconditional love

As we all know, one of the nightmares playing out in modern families is men seeking another mommy from their wife, since they didn’t get the unconditional love from their own, or no dad to show them another way but being a “boy”. Boys NEED mama...
But as soon as your wife senses you NEED her, she pulls away. So in this sense, God is an “out”. That is, if you can get there. It’s an umbrella over YOU the man (who takes care of us, huh?) that CAN provide that feeling of unconditional love
Again, provided you can make that leap. And then maintain the “faith” throughout your life. But the offer is on the table. This is all we get as far as unconditional love. Take it or leave it.
The other option is to slug it out in the secular world where everyone in the family gets to really enjoy love (to dance like no ones watching), except you.

I respect either choice.

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I got it when a man told me "she wants 'safety' as much as you want sex", and listening means just holding it, no solving, no fixing, just validate".
I didn't get it when she said "you're not seeing me"

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@Tonster961 Some ideas: Read The Mental Point of Origin post by @RationalMale, The Unchained Man, No More Mr Nice Guy, When I Say No I Feel Guilty. Lift weights, get jacked, talk less. Keep a validation journal...
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Sometimes I worry that feminism will destroy the nuclear family. But then I remember Darwin..

When the feminist removed all the governors evolution create to ensure careful mate selection (via the pill, morning after pill, abortion, less shaming about notch count...
value of virginity, no fault divorce, gynocentric custody laws, etc.) the net result is that women ended up just providing cheap sex to men. That's what we gained as a society.

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Uncomfortable truth about men: Some of us just stop growing, get comfortable and content, and just sort of stall out

It's an unfortunate downside to our ability to NOT get bored with consistent mid-grade happiness. When we feel that, we want to just keep it going, ride it out..
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.@SuzanneVenker Love your podcast, but I’d like to make a suggestion. You start your podcasts with “Where men and women are equal in value, but wildly different by nature.“

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