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9 Oct, 4 tweets, 1 min read
People who don’t speak spanish trying to talk to a spanish speaker

Often start talking in broken english but with a spanish accent lol

Humans mirror when seeking rapport
It’s unconscious

The stronger the desire for rapport the stronger the mirroring effect

Even see a guy trying badly to impress?

They’ll often repeat the exact words you said in a higher pitch & agree

👱🏼‍♀️ “I love huskies”
👦🏻 *high af pitch* “HusKieS, me too”
When a person doesn’t need rapport they stay grounded in their frame

People then mirror them

Mirroring their word choices, slang, interests, etc
This is very obvious when someone is interested in working with you, has a crush on you

Desires rapport with you

If you like something they start liking it & asking about it

If you say things like “tru” “bet” they’ll start saying it even if they normally never do

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9 Oct
*Thread* - Parallel Realities & Randomness
In front of the right audience you’re the hottest thing

In front of the wrong audience you’re the ugliest thing

In the right environment making right decisions is effortless

In the wrong environment making right decisions is near impossible

Parallel Realities
If you make a YouTube video called

📺 “Make money on Instagram”

12/100 Keyword score. Won’t rank. Nobody will see it

📺 “Make money from Instagram”

64/100 Keyword score. Will rank, people will see it

Only difference is using the word ‘from’ instead of ‘on’
Read 17 tweets
8 Oct
*Thread* REASON - the misunderstood fuel source for action Image
Reason ranks right under love

Humans require reason for action

We remain stuck if we wait for the external to give us reason

We become free when we can internally generate reason Image
External

- Get with someone to feel loved

Once the external gives permission now we have a reason to be loving & feel loved

Internal

- Feel loved to get with someone

The internal generates the reason which then automatically aligns you with the vibration of actually having
Read 12 tweets
6 Oct
The Perfectionist (glorified procrastinator) fears getting messy

In the arena you're going to get messy
In the stands you'll stay clean

Messy, ugly, imperfect - the doer seeks progress & gets things done

Optimization through iteration not speculation
When our bandwidth for discomfort is maxed out

There is no more room for good discomfort (challenge, problem solving, progress)

The inability to get messy reveals a life maxed out in messiness

The mess is internal
Not feeling good enough is the internal mess

When a person lacks this

Their primary purpose becomes fixated on appearances to fill the void of self esteem

Seeking to look figured out, polished, flawless

The confident person with self esteem does not have this void
Read 4 tweets
4 Oct
*Thread* - Needing nothing attracts everything

Building your kingdom Image
Do they need you more than you need them?

Answering this question honestly, can almost always predict the outcome

(Sales, Dates, Friendships...anything)

Are you inviting them to your kingdom

Or are you inviting yourself into their kingdom?
Be like the lighthouse

Firm & grounded

In the country (life) you’ve built

You shine so bright those who see the lighthouse are attracted to come

Getting out of the sea into certainty
To the promise land, where their needs & desires are met
Read 9 tweets
4 Oct
- Inability to delay gratification reveals

There is currently not enough gratification

- Inability to act without certainty reveals

There is currently not enough certainty in their life
Taking on additional discomfort (challenges & goals)

Can’t be done if discomfort levels are already maxed out

Delayed gratification will not be possibly when you desperately need gratification
Taking on uncertainty will not be possible if uncertainty is maxed out

Less you need the more you have

More you have the more you can give

To give effort & energy towards goals (taking on good stress)

Our stress levels can’t be maxed out
If they are we have little to give
Read 4 tweets
3 Oct
Man put his beach stuff in crowded area

Leaves to go in the water. Actor comes & steals his radio

10% of people made an attempt to stop him

2nd experiment - before going in the water he would ask

“Can you watch my stuff?”

This time 90% of people attempted to stop the thief
🔑 Humans strongest desire is to be congruent

To who they believe they are, say they are, & who others believe they are

By simply agreeing to watch his stuff

People found bravery & inconvenienced themselves to confront a thief

over a radio that belongs to a stranger
🔑 How to use this

1) Ask
Or
2) Make a complimenting statement

“I like how you’re clear thinking.

It’s very refreshing to talk to someone who recognizes patterns and quickly makes good decisions”

Them accepting this praise sets that identity to be congruent to...
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