Out of five children, he chose not to be educated
His father put all five children in Baptist primary school
He would sneak out of school to go and fish in the local river or change his uniform, rent a bicycle and ride all day
or go to people's farm to harvest crops he didn't
plant
He was a truant
He always came last in class
His father begged, urged, counseled, and cried
He said he didn't want to go to school
Eventually, his father gave up and sent him to learn how to repair cars with one of his uncles
He was his mother's favourite
His mother was not
a fan of western education too
The apprenticeship thing seemed to work for him
Within six years he had done his freedom and joined a team of fresh mechanics to start an auto mechanic workshop
He was nineteen years old at the time
His older brothers and younger sister were still
school
His eldest brother was the only married one
His immediate older brother had won a scholarship to study in England
His other brother was studying for his M.Sc in Political Science
His only sister was studying accounting in the University
He started making
money
Daily money
His mother taught him how to set up a thrift account with thrift collectors so that he collects a lump sum to save in the bank at the end of every month
Within a year, he had rented an apartment and furnished it to taste
He was more than ready to settle down
He had a lady in mind
She was the one who hawks food to their mechanic workshop every day
He had told her his intention
She was still an apprentice with the caterer she was hawking for
He invited her to his apartment one day
When she saw what he had at home, she opened her legs
He got her pregnant within three months
She didn't complete her apprenticeship
He promised that he would rent a shop for her and set her up in business
He had enough in the bank to feed them and meet every other need
His mother was so proud
She told everyone who had two ears that
her fourth child has surpassed them all
He was the bright and the shinning star of the family
While others were still collecting allowances and school fees
Her fourth son had become financially stable and even gotten married
His wife delivered a son, it was an indelible mark! He
had given his parent their first male grandchild and at such a young age too
His mother told people to be calling her "Mama ****"
(using his name)
To show how proud she was of him
but he reigned for only four years and a few months
The other children graduated and started working
Within a year they were married and building mansions
His younger sister married an architect
She was the first of the children to live in a built and owned house with her husband and children
Within five years the other brothers had built their houses too
He remained a tenant
His siblings prospered in their careers and other businesses
All he achieved that was spectacular was buying a pick-up truck he used for his refuse disposal business which he started when it seemed the mechanic business was not thriving anymore and giving birth to more children
At a point he got frustrated and visited a prophet
Sir, I was the star of my family
I was the first to make money, get married and do great things but sir, it seemed something changed somewhere
I am the poorest now
I can barely feed my family
I can barely make ends meet...
The prophet told him someone had exchanged his glory
Someone had taken your virtue
Someone had taken your aura of prosperity
We have to do destiny reclamation
The prophet to him what to bring
He ran to his mother
His mother believed him
He ran to his father
His father told him
the truth
You limited yourself by refusing to get an education
The fact that you made money in your early twenties was because your siblings were still in school
They get promoted, bonuses, travel allowances, loand and investment opportunities at work
You only have your daily
income and sometimes you dont get customers with deep pockets
This is the problem
He heard his father but he preferred the Prophet's verdict
He chose not to believe his father because if he did, he would have to look within and change his approach from within but if he believed
the prophet, he would have to point fingers at other people and blame someone else for his own misfortune
The prophet collected the stuff needed for sacrifice and did all sorts of spiritual work on him
He bathed in the river and his garment was changed from black to white as a
symbol of the reclamation of destiny
He returned home expecting a change of fortune
It never happened!
After four months his mother gave him a lot of money to open a shop selling vehicle parts
it was the silver lining he needed but it didn't last a week
He got robbed on his way
to Lagos to buy the spare parts
The luxurious bus he took from Kano to Lagos was taken over by highway robbers and he lost everything
He went back to the prophet in tears
Since I met you and did the destiny reclamation, things had gotten worse
I had never been robbed before I met
you but after i met you, i seem to have been attracting ill luck
The prophet fell into a trance and told him his wife was a witch
He believed the prophet
Already, he was suspicious of all his siblings because either one or all of them stole his glory
Now his wife was a witch
He
has to believe the prophet because she was the only one who knew about the big money his mother gave him and his plan to travel to Lagos with it
He threw his wife and children out of his home
He married another woman recommended for him by the prophet
The woman died eight months
later with her seven months old pregnancy in her
The prophet told him it was an attack from his wife
He didn't consider the fact that the late wife was depending only on local herbs and never once visited the hospital for antenatal
The prophet was right
His ex-wife was a witch!
He started a soap making business
It didn't work
His siblings tried to help him
He refused to accept their help because the prophet had told him if he collected anything from them they would take back his glory
He tried getting into the transportation business
His bus was always
faulty
His father called him several times
Upgrade your skillset on the auto mechanic business and go back to it
That was what you were trained to do
He refused
He told his mother he wanted to make money
He wanted to be rich
He hated being the poorest of her children
He held his
mother responsible for his lack of education
He was determined to shine again at all cost
His mother told him about a man somewhere in Oyo who can help him
He decided he must do money ritual
He must have the kind of money that will put hard work to shame
He went for the ritual
He died a week later
He died with his life in tatters
he blamed everyone else but himself for his fortune in life
I hope our youths will learn from this
I hope we will look within and correct our crooked paths
Members of SARS are mostly Nigerian Youths too!
We all need to change
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He bathed in the river and his garment
was changed from black to white as a
symbol of the reclamation of destiny
He returned home expecting a change
of fortune
It never happened!
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The question she kept asking herself was "What went wrong with her marriage?"
"Where exactly did things fall apart"
She married a good man, a faithful man
How come he suddenly didn't want anything to do with her
How come he found her irritable and began to withdraw from her? For
many days she couldn't find an answer to her question
She considered everything
From her dressing to her cooking
From her attitude to his relatives to her conduct towards his friends
She had tried everything possible to keep herself in shape
She had put him first, above all else,
and had never compromised in any way
She used to be the light of his heart, the sun his planet revolved around until everything turned suddenly
She tried everything in her power since the moment she sensed the rift to get him to open up, to get him to talk to her and express his
Judges 9
Abimelek son of Jerub-Baal went to his mother’s brothers in Shechem and said to them and to all his mother’s clan, 2 “Ask all the citizens of Shechem, ‘Which is better for you: to have all seventy of Jerub-Baal’s sons rule over you, or just one man?’ Remember
I am your flesh and blood.”
3 When the brothers repeated all this to the citizens of Shechem, they were inclined to follow Abimelek, for they said, “He is related to us.” 4 They gave him seventy shekels[a] of silver from the temple of Baal-Berith, and Abimelek used it to hire
reckless scoundrels, who became his followers. 5 He went to his father’s home in Ophrah and on one stone murdered his seventy brothers, the sons of Jerub-Baal. But Jotham, the youngest son of Jerub-Baal, escaped by hiding. 6 Then all the citizens of Shechem and Beth Millo
It started like a genuine agitation for change
The right words were said
The imagery was perfect
We were at the National Youth Development Centre, Owode Egba, Ogun State
The year was 2007
The Federal Government had invited several Universities to a Leadership and National Youth
Development workshop
I led the team from Bowen University, Iwo
The Lecturer that traveled with us was Professor Ayansina, (He was a Dr. at the time)
The meeting was originally billed to hold at the University of Ibadan but the venue was changed on the day the meeting was billed
to start due to some issues and we were advised to proceed to the National Youth Development Centre in Ogun State
By the time we got to Owode Egba, it was 6:30pm, since the centre was not the original venue slated for the event, the place was not "ready"
Rooms were unmade,
They had a house help once
The lady was very good with their children and acted more like a younger sister to his wife
One day he returned from work unexpectedly and found the house help in his sitting room sleeping with the boy repairing phones on the street
He just smiled and
picked what he came home to pick
He rushed straight to the airport & traveled to Abuja
He didn't say a word about what he saw o his wife on the phone
He knows his wife
His wife will sack the lady without batting an eye
His wife wouldn't consider the fact that he was out of Lagos
and she wouldn't be able to cope alone with the children and her work without any help
He felt they could address it when he returned home from Abuja
He had contacted the agent that brought the house help and was told a replacement would be available within two weeks
He felt it
In 2001, (I have written this story before) there was a National strike that led to schools shut down.
I was in the University of Ibadan at the time, when I left school, I went to Cute Guest House Agbowo at about 11AM, some friends of mine (Laide, the Barman) Lateef a student of
the Polythecnic Ibadan (Saki Campus), Sunday Akinloye (A student of UNAD), Kamoru, A student of the Polythecnic Ibadan, Saki Campus all joined me at the Guest house within an hour.
They were also coming straight from their schools
We didn't plan to meet there
We just did because
students usually hang out there
I was drinking beer and they joined me
We had drunk some bottles when Kamoru, (He is Lateef's friend from school and that was the first day i was meeting him started talking about how he heard the announcement of the strike and how useless the govt
I once worked with a media outfit
I didn't apply for the job
I woke up one morning and saw a text message declaring that i had been scheduled for an interview with the management of the company
I assumed my wife or someone who knew me personally must have dropped my name for the
organization
I went for the test
I got my offer letter on November 13, 2013
I celebrated the new job by taking my wife and my brother-in-law (Also a journalist at the time) to an eatery close to my house
The days of earning 30,000 naira salary with another media outfit were over
The salary this new outfit offered was 100,000 Naira
It was a step in the right direction
We were asked to resume immediately for training
I met a lot of great guys who would be our presenters, cameramen, news anchors etc during the training
After the first month, the MD said he