me every day of Tommy's life: Could you chill out a little? Learn to chill? Acquire some chill? I love you but I'm trying to work right now.

Tommy, today: *chills*

me: OMG what's wrong?

(Nothing, she just really likes the memory foam pillow I put on her chair.)
She relax. Photo of a black cat, Tommy, on a gray checked blanket on to
Our cats were very sick when we got them from the shelter and I was still dealing (and not very well) with trauma around the death of my previous cat, and so I tended to check on them obsessively when they were sleeping.
The two cats each kind of evolved opposite responses to this neurotic behavior. Tony became a very deep sleeper and will outright ignore everything if she's sleepy or comfortable, and Tommy tends to stick close by me and shower me with attention, I suppose in part to reassure me.
I got this memory foam cushion to bolster my own sagging computer chair and it came in a set of two (like my chair) so I put one on Tommy's and she didn't trust it at all until I covered it with her blanket, and it still took her a couple days to get used to it.
But this afternoon she curled up on it and sacked out so completely I thought she was Tony for a bit.
She is probably more tired than usual because this week I have been keeping up a streak of not napping in the afternoon, and since her habit is to sleep when I sleep, that means she also been missing naps.
Her developing a habit of taking naps near me while I'm working is actually ideal so I'm going to try very hard to just let her be if she keeps doing that. :P
This has been a big month for us being concerned/alarmed by our animal companions' sleep habits.

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