Thread by @drgurner

Here’s a weekend thread to improve your communication skills with just about anyone…

It’s a game changer for how people will see your “emotional intelligence” & connect.

No matter what your problems might be, be open, drop your preconceived notions, and give this a shot. 1/

Main Takeaway: Problems in communication usually come from people expecting others to see and interpret the world the same way they do.

So, how will others see you as “emotionally intelligent” and connect with you? If you can meet them where they’re at. 2/

This doesn’t come naturally to everyone...

You have to find points of connection, not make them feel stupid if a new topic, and anticipate their emotional responses.

People will truly engage with others if they feel they are being respected, heard, and understood. 3/

What goes wrong? When people approach others the way “we think they should be,” and not approaching them for "who they are"…

That approach will not go well - it makes you very unlikeable, and come off like a jerk (even when you might not be). 4/

No matter who you are, the good news is that this is a skill you can improve.

Whether you’re in business, connecting with strangers, or simply trying to connect better with someone you know.

Big Tip --> Meet people where they're at...not where you want them to be. 5/fin