So-called “communicative deficits” in autism are often just the result of cross-neurotype interaction.
For those who want to learn more about autistic communication styles, I’ve compiled several studies that I’m going summarize.
Hopefully this will teach you a thing or two.
“Autistic peer-to-peer information transfer is highly effective” (2020)
Demonstrates that while NTs and autistics often experience communication breakdown, autistic people can convey and transfer information effectively among ourselves.
Autistic people (generally) prefer to interact with other autistic people, and experience a greater feeling of connection with each other as compared to NTs. So, we’re capable of establishing social rapport.
A 2014 study of verbal creativity in autistic people found that we’re capable of comprehending metaphors to the same extent that NTs are, but that we tend to come up with more novel metaphors.
“The study points to unique verbal creativity in ASD.”
Here’s a 2007 paper (relevant to autism) about humor in a cross-cultural context, which demonstrates that misunderstanding and a so-called “lack of humor” is often the result of different cultural expectations.
“Maori participants regularly mentioned that Pakeha humor was different and that Pakeha did not understand Maori jokes...
The reverse was not found, because Pakeha, as the dominant group, did not need to adjust to Maori norms, which thus went unnoticed.”
(Bell, 2007)
The power dynamic at play in who decides what is funny & what isn’t, is extremely relevant to studies on autism.
Just because NTs don’t always perceive us as funny, doesn’t mean we aren’t.
It means they’re the dominant cultural group, and we approach humor differently.
And here’s a 2008 paper about autistic culture and communication.
It discusses how the creation of the internet has served as a communicative equalizer for autistic people, as well as a platform for the development of our culture.
I watched the Pixar movie Soul with my family last night, and I really enjoyed it.
I think one of the reasons I loved it so much, was that 22’s experience of life in Joe’s body was so reminiscent of autistic people’s experience of life every day.
22 has never experienced life before, so she comes into every situation as an outsider.
She’s not aware of social rules, so she does things that Joe would never do, or that seem “odd.”
She’s never had a body before, so her senses are extremely heightened.
Because everything is new to her, 22 is very sensitive and easily overwhelmed by sensory stimuli.
She gets frightened by crowds of people, sirens, loud noises, etc. in NYC and then ends up running away due to sensory overload (which could be viewed as elopement).
When autistic people are overstimulated/overwhelmed for any reason, it’s very common for us to lose the ability to speak.
Many of us become completely physically incapable of it. For others, it’s possible to speak, but very difficult and distressing.
This often goes along with a shutdown, which is an “internal” meltdown. In those situations our motor control may be impacted too.
But sometimes, it just happens randomly. We might be okay emotionally and able to type or gesture, but still unable to speak.
Some autistic people never speak, some of us speak only in echolalia, some of us are semi-speaking, and some of us are usually able to speak in the ways NTs do.
There’s a very wide variety of speaking ability in autistic people, and it often changes in each person over time.