Really interesting how many people interpreted this as mindfulness bashing.
This was about how I (and many other people) literally do not have the tools to interpret the signals our bodies are sending us until we've done years of research.
For most of my life, other people *insisted* that my symptoms must have a pattern if I just paid closer attention.
Most people acted as if there was an effort & attention gap rather than a knowledge gap.
This often took the form of literal gaslighting.
The tool I needed to "tune into my body" in my case was a 24/7 heart rate monitor. Nobody suggested that.
I didn't know that was data that could help me and the tools didn't exist for consumers yet anyway.
Now that I have this tool, I'm learning so much! There are trackable patterns!
Every single person who told me to just pay closer attention without helping me find tools to interpret the data was just an asshole, is what I'm saying.
Ugh like there are corners of wellness culture that are full of the idea that your body is telling you everything you need to know.
Sometimes it's not! Sometimes it's only telling you like 45% of what you need to know so you have to go find the remaining 55% for any clarity.
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If you have suspected or confirmed mast cell problems, what have been the most unexpected early warning signs that it's Time To Take A Benadryl*?
*or other rescue med, etc
I have flushing episodes that are pretty standard, but I definitely also have SUDDEN COGNITIVE & FULL BODY EXHAUSTION (affectionately known as bee brain because my brain uh, feels full of bees) that I am always thrown off by.
"Why do I suddenly need a nap?! Oh. Need benadryl."
One of the strangest discoveries of this crash is that bee brain is not inherently part of my fatigue.
When I unwittingly lived in toxic mold in 2017, I thought that feeling was just part of being exhausted?
I've still had cog fatigue this year, but it's much less... something.
Hey friends! Do you want watch some very bad Christmas films on Teleparty with me today?
I'm watching Christmas Inheritance on Netflix around noon Boston time and then Happiest Season on Hulu (important change!) around 4pm Boston time. I'll put up the links ~30 mins in advance.
If you want to watch (& perhaps snark on) the Netflix Holiday Original called Christmas Inheritance with me, here's the link! Will be starting in about half an hour & taking many breaks.
oh! and don't forget that you have to click the red TP icon in the toolbar after clicking in the link in order to actually join the party. I forgot to put that in the last tweet (but it's in the info thread!).
well the [sarcastically good] news is that I got terrible sleep before a scheduled holiday zoom call later this morning, which is literally how I became bedbound for months back in April!
I have not gotten better at managing all the Complicated Feelings that come with having a body that regularly says "you can participate in [this planned activity], but there will be unpredictable consequences and they may be permanent!"
And I always feel so preemptively defensive about the IDEA of backing out of a plan with non-sick folks that my brain gremlins always tell me anyone else involved will think I'm A DRAMATIC FAKER.
Ok honestly I feel like the thing that healthy people don't get about diagnosis is how much it feels like getting the key to a cipher.
Like you spend [months/years/a lifetime] alternately tuning into and out of your body with much concerted effort, but every time you tune in it's just chaos.
Nothing makes sense and everything feels terrible. And those feelings compound each other.
And if you get misdiagnosed (which happens a lot), you're left with this unease like... why hasn't the chaos become a bit more orderly?
I know PT won't reverse all my symptoms or anything but it's honestly so helpful for me that I'm raging pissed about the myriad ways that PT is inaccessible.
Undiagnosed? No PT.
Chronic condition? Acute PT only.
Hypermobile? Ignorant PT can cause irreparable harm.
Plus, cost.
Like I'm 33 and I've been hypermobile all my life and this is the FIRST TIME I've had an appropriate exercise routine to target weakness & tension that are directly caused by hypermobility.
Three decades and nobody was like 🤔
Because of my whole Thinking About Anatomy Triggers Syncope problem, my current framework for thinking about this whole deal is that our hypermobile bodies just like... settle over time as ligaments crap out and muscles spasm to compensate.