@laurambarringer A few suggestions ...

On abusive leaders and the toxic systems they create, *When Narcissism Comes to Church* by Chuck DeGroat.

futuristguy.wordpress.com/review-when-na…
@laurambarringer On abusive church/ministry systems, and what to do about them and ways to reconfigure our views and practices on leaders, *UnLeader: Reimagining Leadership … and Why We Must* by Lance Ford.

futuristguy.wordpress.com/review-unleade…
@laurambarringer On what it looks like to intentionally go against abusive power dynamics & instead embody being person of peace, bridge builder, stander-in-the-gap. *Love Over Fear: Facing Monsters, Befriending Enemies, and Healing Our Polarized World* by Dan White, Jr.

futuristguy.wordpress.com/review-love-ov…
@laurambarringer Some helpful materials from a pastoral perspective by Ken Garrett in his doctoral project paper: *Spiritual Abuse in the Church: A Guide to Recognition and Recovery*. Guest post series on Spiritual Sounding Board.

spiritualsoundingboard.com/2017/05/22/new…
@laurambarringer Link to PDF of Ken's dissertation ...

gracechurchportland.org/wp-content/upl…
@laurambarringer Ken has connections with ICSA--International Cultic Studies Association--which recommends resources for survivors, family/friends, therapists, and researchers. ICSA can bring in sources from various perspectives, including research, counseling, and legal.

icsahome.com
@laurambarringer The only book I know of so far that has a lot more for those in ministry who've been spiritually abused by their leaders and/or colleagues is *Spiritual Abuse Recovery: Dynamic Research on Finding a Place of Wholeness* by Barb Orlowski.
@laurambarringer This comes from her D.Min. research project, based on surveys of sp abuse experiences of ministers at any level in a local church/Xn org, by superiors, peers, or subordinates. Some unique material on power abuse dynamics in ministry settings/systems.

amazon.com/Spiritual-Abus…

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Organic & organizational systems emerged as frameworks upon which all else hangs, & the questions that have driven my work in more recent years relate to the road by which an entire society can end up in a situation of "totalist psychology" control. In other words, a "cult." /2
The way I've developed to show how this happens is through a system of 3 intertwining forms of manipulation--of individuals, of institutions, & of ideologies--that create dynamics leading to "high-demand" (i.e., cultish) small group, network or organization, or larger society. /3
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@tripleoxymoron @annakeith @Holly4Hope @1SHeRA1 @HunterCrowder6 @ERLC @MattChandler74 @villagechurchtx @wademullen @jdahlmd IMO this is why civil suits against church's corporation can be fitting action on systemic abuse. Corporation is separate "person" legally w/ institution designed to protect individuals who are in it. So, hold the entity's assets accountable when responsible parties refuse to be.
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Have a complaint about the organization or its leaders? "Don't sue your brothers in Christ!" And remember that covenant? Mandatory mediation. /2
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THREAD: DOCUMENTS FROM SBC SOURCES ON DEALING WITH SYSTEMIC SEXUAL ABUSE.

This thread lists links to notes, news reports, documents. Thanks & hat tip to Phillip Bethancourt for many of these links plus helpful introductions that frame the articles posted. @pbethancourt #SBCToo
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THREAD: How to Do Systemic Review of Abuse/Violence-Related Issues at a Seminary.

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An exhausting week, between @HoustonChron series & other stmts, apologies, denials. But there’s 1 paragraph in Dr. Mohler’s stmt on Southern Baptist Theological Seminary’s website we need to note, as several on Twitter have done, the first I saw being @JJ_Denhollander--thanks! 1
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