Yea even in Singapore some of the smartest people I’ve met are broke and some of the most clueless people I’ve met are wealthy. The interesting thing is how rare it is to meet people who are interested in really understanding and navigating this. The categories are all wrong
I think the real amazing trait in people is not wealth or intelligence but actually courage & compassion. This used to sound really cheesy and fake to me as a kid but the older I get the clearer it becomes how real it is
Re: intelligence & wealth: if you’re broke + smart, you CAN become moderately wealthy using your intelligence– but lots of people are compromised by scarcity mindset and struggle to make + stick with long term plans. A smart mind can be sick, and struggle to free itself
there are a set of traits that people don’t seem to talk about, that really make all the difference in a practical sense. You don’t need to be hyper-intelligent. You need imagination. You need project management skills. You need to learn to handle your emotions. These are hard
And I think possibly most importantly of all you need to be connected with good people. I think this is the most critical variable for all but the most hardcore “thriving in isolation” types. I’m better in isolation than most people I know, but even I can’t do it on my own
the counter-intuitive thing about wealth is that you don’t need to be broadly right about lots of things. you mostly just need to be very right about something. and you can kinda blunder into it, that’s the fun of entrepreneurship. I’ve sold like 10,000 tshirts almost by accident
That doesn’t make me *wealthy* (my fixed costs were pretty high and one of my vendors owes me like $10,000 that I’ll probably never see), but it certainly gave me breathing room to take time off and figure out all the other things
I think lots of people have this vague assumption that wealth is created by “generally competent people”. In reality I’d say quite often it’s almost created despite staggering incompetence. “How can incompetent people be allowed to make money?” Son that’s not how the world works
Here’s a thing that drives me mad: lots of otherwise smart people, when confronted with this reality, either choose to deny it, or reason that the game is rigged against them and that they cannot and will never win
You won’t be #1, but you can certainly get quite comfortable
I think it’s kind of related to a sort of pass/fail, win/lose, up/down mindset. Binary thinking. Absence of playfulness, discomfort with multiverse reality. Which is how the world *is*... shit-
People would rather lose than be wrong.
There’s a Courage To Be Disliked element here. You win almost in direct relation to the amount that you’re willing to fail and be wrong. It’s the fear and avoidance of being wrong, looking stupid, etc etc that limits your game, and by extension, your winnings
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super broadly: I trust my friends to be capable of excellence, and I nudge and challenge them towards it, moderately, with some sensitivity and some experimentation. not everyone wants this from their relationships, which is totally understandable
I spent a good decade or so being a lackadaisical underachiever, so I do get it. No judgement, no hate. Only love. We can still be friends in a casual sense. But I have a special energy that I save only for people who are also "keepers of the flame"
Sometimes I get my assessment wrong – sometimes the people who I assumed wanted X (usually because they talk about wanting X, lol) turn out to not really want X, or not want it that bad, etc. I used to get frustrated about this but now I see this too as all part of the process
the "alright guys" clap is a kind of status marker
it's kind of like the click/snap at the end of "lights camera action" – it's a bid, a gesture to say "alright let's go". it's a bid at leadership, in a micro/local/immediate sense
broadly I think you only do it if you're comfortable leading a conversation. not all leaders necessarily clap, but all of these claps are "ok i'ma take it from here", which is a confidence marker
I’ve noticed sometimes people with ~1000-ish followers do both
1. Be anxious about seeing their follower count fluctuate (ie losing followers) 2. Talk about how it might be nice to have more followers
Here’s the wack thing: the more followers you get, the more you will lose
I think it’s accurate to say more people have unfollowed me than currently follow me. 😂
Ie for every person who thinks “I like following this guy”, 2-3 people think “he talks too much”, “he’s annoying”, etc. I’m ok with this; just sharing the reality of how it is
If you pursue building a following because you’re hurt by rejection and you think it will make you feel more loved and accepted, I have very bad news
Somebody asked to see what it looks like when I’m tweeting, and I was like, how do I even show you how I’m tweeting? I cant record my fingers on my phone. Then I remembered that I have a camera 😂 so. Here is me tweeting, will attach a video at the end
Yes I actually do all of my threads one tweet at a time, like this. I don’t plan anything
We are over a minute in, this feels like it’s taking a little longer than it normally would, but I’m probably feeling weird because of the posture