Thread by @spinesurgeon

Let us Explore this <<not a judgemental forum>> approach a bit more

Assuming that the first Confession is Real and not fake

What we know for sure is that this lady is not happy for what happened (Symptom)

Now
This could be due to 4 causes (etiology)

https://twitter.com/agizo_jay/status/1337692061445758976

1.
Her husband is at fault

2.
She is at fault

3.
Both are at Fault

4.
Neither is at fault. The Circumstances are at fault / Society is at fault / there was miscommunication / there was misunderstanding

Now
We need to solve the problem
So
We need to find the cause

Without knowing the correct cause of the problem and without correcting the root cause, the problem won't go away

So
We need to find the root cause

Isn't it

Actually
Finding the Root Cause = Judging
And
This is exactly a section of today's youth don't want to do

So
When you have a problem, expecting a non judgmental approach itself is wrong

"I don't like to be proved wrong" / "I don't like to know that I have a problem in me" is being told in a polished and and polite manner as "I want a non judgmental approach"

Is Venting in Social Media Wrong ?
No
Not at all

Then what is the issue ?
Issue is just venting here where solution wont be available and not seeking the solution in the proper way

https://twitter.com/tamilravi/status/1337696921671114757

Seek Solution in Real Life with or without writing in Social Media - you are likely to solve the problem

Not Seek Solution in Real Life, but just vent in Social Media - you are not likely to solve the problem

https://twitter.com/AnandNodal/status/1337694921881341952