My account in @thewire_in of meeting Muskan and Rashid, victims of a series of violent acts by the Bajrang Dal, and by a range of UP government authorities including the police, shelter home and hospital. thewire.in/communalism/up…
Advised by @SartajAlamIndia Muskan was taken to Bijnor, where she got an ultrasound done at a private clinic. The report shows that there are “retained products of conception” (foetal matter left over after a miscarriage or abortion) in her uterus.
The hospital denies causing Muskan to miscarry – but their denial rings false. They declared no miscarriage had occurred – which is now proven to be a lie. Most shockingly, in actions that befit a Mengele, they did not prescribe any antibiotics to Muskan after the miscarriage.
See how calm, confident Muskan is in the face of Bajrang Dal thugs: asked on camera if her father or “guardian” has given her permission to marry Rashid, she replies, “I am an adult, I am 22, I have married him of my own choice five months ago.” facebook.com/watch/?v=23207…
Muskan told me: “I am an adult, know my own mind, was living on my own when I met Rashid. I knew he was Muslim. We loved each other. I converted to Islam of my own accord, & we married. My mother does not know him, she has just parroted whatever the Bajrang Dal men asked her to.”
Why did Muskan need to convert to Islam, choose a nikah ceremony rather than registration under the Special Marriage Act? Muskan’s experience of trying to get her marriage registered answers that riddle quite well. The SMA discriminates against inter-faith couples.
Unlike religious ceremonies, the SMA process requires a couple to put up a public notice for a month of their intention to marry. Informers within the bureaucracy alert Hindu-supremacist outfits, and they spring into action to prevent the marriage.
It is no wonder that Hindu supremacist thugs in UP act like a shadow government – after all, one of their own is the chief minister. When Adityanath issues death threats to Muslim men who love and marry Hindu women, he is promising the thugs his blessing and protection.
Muskan on the shelter home: “It is a prison, women are tortured there, women in inter-caste/faith love are kept there, prevented from having mobile phones, told they can be free only if they agree to give up their relationship and be released into parental custody.”
The police and shelter home authorities knew Muskan was pregnant. Yet she was taken away from a loving home, violently separated from her husband who was jailed, and taken into custody as though she were a criminal.
Rashid & Salim were escorted into their own home by a "friend of the police", an officious, grim and unsmiling man in a black suit, who kept saying to the family “What are all the tears for, it is all okay now, all is now well,” &trying to disperse media & activists.
The officious man in a suit may say “no harm has been done”, but in fact, Muskan and Rashid and their loved ones are all victims of a series of violent acts by the Bajrang Dal, and by a range of UP government authorities including the police, shelter home and hospital.
It would be truly obscene if we, the people of India, too say “no harm done”, shrug and look the other way. A loving husband and wife were violently attacked by an outfit which trains its members in violence and makes a habit of separating interfaith couples.
The police, instead of acting against the thugs, illegally arrested the victims of the violence. A pregnant woman was subjected to trauma. Whether as a result of the trauma or as a result of forced administration of abortifacients, she suffered a miscarriage.
The authorities lied, denied the miscarriage, and in order to protect the lie, failed to protect her from a possible uterine infection that could affect child-bearing in the future. In two weeks, a pregnant bride in the pink of health has been reduced to a shadow of herself.
UP’s anti-love ordinance is a blood-purity law to rival Nazi Germany’s Nuremberg laws. Muskan’s and Rashid’s case is not a “misuse” of the law. The only “use” of such an ordinance is to give legal cover to Hindu supremacist thugs who inflict violence on interfaith couples.
It is not enough for such ordinances to be struck down and declared unconstitutional by courts. Courts must order a countrywide probe into the violent Hindu supremacist outfits that terrorise interfaith couples, and their enablers embedded in the police and administration.
Courts must mandate changes in the SMA to do away with the month-long notice period. Right to privacy judgement must not just be an elegant piece of prose for the history books. Courts must act to protect the right of interfaith, inter-caste and same-sex couples to privacy...
...so that any government employee who leaks information about impending marriages to vigilante groups, should lose his job and face prosecution. All laws seeking to restrict/regulate conversion must be struck down.
Faith, like love and marriage, is a private affair. The state cannot claim authority to ask adult individuals to furnish justifications for their decision to convert, or to marry.
As I wrote this, I knew that all that I say "should" happen, won't happen under this evil regime. But I wrote it anyway because it is what we all SHOULD, MUST fight for.
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कल कांठ, मुरादाबाद में AIPWA, AISA, और HRLN की टीम गई थी, UP के लव विरोधी अध्यादेश से पीड़ित दम्पत्ति मुस्कान और राशिद से मिलने. वहां दिए गए मेरे बयान का, और फिर राशिद और मुस्कान से बातचीत के वीडियो ke अंश इस ट्वीट की लड़ी में साझा किया है
फ़िल्मों में प्यार की कहानी देखो और अपने समाज में प्यार की हत्या होने दो - देश के लोगों को ऐसे ढोंग का विरोध करना चाहिए
मुस्कान के स्वास्थ्य का, उसके पेट में पलते बच्चे का जो नुकसान हुआ, उसका न्याय कैसे होगा?
We found that 1) Muskan is very weak after her miscarriage, and the Moradabad District Hospital where she was admitted has not given her the treatment papers, nor any course of antibiotics and painkillers to prevent post miscarriage infections that can affect fertility in future
2) The first dose of antibiotics & painkillers Muskan received is today - after we got her to speak on phone to a senior gynaecologist in Delhi, who explained that antibiotics are always prescribed following a miscarriage, to prevent infections.
. @thirumaofficial quotes anti women stuff the Manusmriti says. @khushsundar & BJP twitter erupts in outrage, gets case filed against him. Folks, he's only QUOTING the Manusmriti! If you want to get offended, perhaps you should get offended at the Manusmriti?
That said, imho, it is far more necessary to discuss how Manu mandates that women be treated as property to be controlled by men (that's the quote Yogi A chose to amplify in his writing), than to cite shock value bits that imply he "treats women like prostitutes".
Manu continues to have power in the 21st century because across communities & ideologies, even among those who politics is anti Manuvad, the violence against women's autonomy (especially sexual autonomy) is rampant.
In a case which Poop India & others have reported as a "love jehad" case in Bareilly, UP & BJP attacked police station: the alleged "victim" has boldly asserted she's an adult, married the man she loves, told BJP men to back off.
. @sharmarekha the woman in this Bareilly case is a victim of violence against her autonomy by BJP men. Why won't @NCWIndia act to support her, her husband & his family, all victims of a patriarchal communal hate crime? Why no action on media calling a love marriage, #LoveJehad?
BJP RSS language of "love jehad" translates to mean: a) We treat women as property of communities b) We wage war on women's autonomy to decide who they love, marry c) We hate Muslims d) We want Manusmriti (with its caste based laws governing love) to replace India's Constitution
Hey @sharmarekha - what on earth is a "love jehad" case? Any case in which a Muslim man and Hindu woman are in love? How dare you remain in your chair as @NCWIndia chief & use a term that a) treats women as property of communities b) hates Muslims? You bring shame to NCW.
Dear @sharmarekha - I have researched the so-called "love jehad" claims extensively (written a whole book about it) and am yet to find a SINGLE case where such claims have been vindicated. Please tell us a single case where the "crime" of "love jehad" has been proved.
In my book #FearlessFreedom@PenguinIndia, I profile the courageous women who have had to take on bigots like you, who sadly head courts and women's commissions and ministries. Remember the supposed Meerut "love jehad case"? It turned out to be a love case, they're married now.
Comrade @Dipankar_cpiml addressing a PC at Muzaffarpur, Bihar in support of the alliance and @cpimlliberation candidate, the young activist Aftab Alam.
Comrade Aftab has worked for flood relief and people's welfare and rights, and justice in Bihar for a decade and a half - @Dipankar_cpiml
NDA leaders have no answer to the people's questions about jobs & welfare & migrants' rights. They're trying to divert by fear mongering about the Alliance and CPIML's presence in the Alliance, in particular. Why this desperation?