RETHREAD: "RED FLAG" ISSUES. This is my current list of toxic institutional issues emerging as major concerns for abuse survivors & advocates over last 10-15 years. I plan to write more about them soon. For now, will just say these cause almost automatic repulsion for survivors.
1 Membership covenants or abusive church discipline.
2 Cronyism, nepotism, theobroism (conflict of interest).
3 Non-disclosure agreements.
4 Mediation that removes rights of victims.
5 Use IRS church designation to avoid Form 990s whereby public can evaluate the organization.
6 Passive board fails to oversee leaders' character and behaviors.
7 Use internal investigation to avoid independent, transparent investigation.
8 Use meaningless “certifications” of safety, financial accountability, etc.
9 Rely on PR spin via image repair/impression management
10 Not taking intervention/prevention of physical or sexual violence seriously.
With 1 in 3 women globally victim of sexual violence, & ~1 in 4 men, avoidance of abuse prevention & survivor advocacy = intentional excluding of ~2 billion people from the good news of the gospel.
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RZIM THREAD. In light of RZIM intermediate report that confirms sexual abuse by its founder, I am compiling resources that provide crucial context elements to overall situation for Ravi Zacharias as an individual & RZIM as the institution he founded. /1
From post: "This official statement by RZIM is vindication for the women who reported Mr. Zacharias' abuses: These were credible accusations--not mere allegations or false reports."
People will have questions. They deserve details to equip discerning/deciding for themselves. /2
Initial sections include:
* TIMELINE for 2016-2020
* NONPROFIT PROFILE for RZIM.
* Spiritual Sounding Board POSTS from 2017-2020
* KEY SOURCES for News Reports, Analysis, Critiques, and Commentary
I hope this helps for those who want to understand the broader backstory. /3
@laurambarringer On abusive church/ministry systems, and what to do about them and ways to reconfigure our views and practices on leaders, *UnLeader: Reimagining Leadership … and Why We Must* by Lance Ford.
@laurambarringer On what it looks like to intentionally go against abusive power dynamics & instead embody being person of peace, bridge builder, stander-in-the-gap. *Love Over Fear: Facing Monsters, Befriending Enemies, and Healing Our Polarized World* by Dan White, Jr.
TUTORIAL: SCALE & MANIPULATION FORMS LEADING TO A TOTALIST CONTROL CULT. I'm in year 14 of a 15-year research project on identifying + dealing with malignant people & toxic systems. I started by analyzing dynamics of spiritual abuse, but this turned out to be the door to more. /1
Organic & organizational systems emerged as frameworks upon which all else hangs, & the questions that have driven my work in more recent years relate to the road by which an entire society can end up in a situation of "totalist psychology" control. In other words, a "cult." /2
The way I've developed to show how this happens is through a system of 3 intertwining forms of manipulation--of individuals, of institutions, & of ideologies--that create dynamics leading to "high-demand" (i.e., cultish) small group, network or organization, or larger society. /3
A lot of threads recently on forms of CULTURAL AUTHORITARIANISM, Including reconstruction, dominionism, theocracy. While it may seem good to impose a set of pseudo-biblical requirements on everyone, it removes our God-given right & responsibility to decide directions ourselves. 1
I'm an advocate of our freedom to discern and decide--while also considering potential positive & negative consequences to ourselves & our community.
I'm also a student of how destruction happens in congregation & community when related core freedoms are denied or twisted. 2
Here are some slides I created for tutorials on core concepts about key elements of freedom. I boiled it down to these essentials to be broad-based as possible because I work w/ both ministry systems for personal transformation & social entrepreneur projects for social change. 3
THREAD: DOCUMENTS FROM SBC SOURCES ON DEALING WITH SYSTEMIC SEXUAL ABUSE.
This thread lists links to notes, news reports, documents. Thanks & hat tip to Phillip Bethancourt for many of these links plus helpful introductions that frame the articles posted. @pbethancourt#SBCToo
#1. THREAD. Robert Downen, live tweeting notes from SBC President J.D. Greear's presentation Feb 18. Including this link so you can check responses to Mr Downen. #2 = unrolled version of just his tweets. @HoustonChron@RobDownenChron@jdgreear#SBCToo
#2. UNROLLED THREAD from Robert Downen, live tweeting notes from SBC President J.D. Greear's presentation, Feb 18. Supplied by Thread Reader App. Thank you @RobDownenChron & @threadreaderapp. @jdgreear#SBCToo