18 First Date Rules that'll improve your results with women
1. Never compliment her appearance even if she asks
2. Avoid saying anything outside a brief interesting story about yourself and simple questions for her
3. Let her do most of the talking my brother
4. Never lie. You don't have to answer every question directly.
5. Never discuss any of your past relationships or sexual experiences. Give her general, brief replies if she asks, then change the topic back to her
6. Make her laugh. Don't be an anal retard. Nothing wrong with throwing in some sarcasm and funny shit
7. Relax and lean back
8. Never give a shit about how the date will end. Even if you never see her again. (outcome independence)
9. Don't kiss women on the first date unless sex is happening for sure. You can throw in some light and sensual touches though.
10. Don't spend more than the bare minimum on these items on the first date
A) drinks for both of you
B) her transport back home and sometimes coming too
Eat me. You invited her out. You don't turn to a pussy just cus you help her pay for some cheap stuff. Basic manners.
11. Maintain good eye contact
12. Smile. Don't be 'too cool'. Be relaxed
13. Touch her. Don't be afraid. Touch her hands. Her arms. Caress where or when you can. Don't touch any sensitive areas. Just linger.
14. Talk about sex. Get her to talk about sex.
15. Throwing light insults is silly if she's a normal girl. It only works on really hot women because they aren't used to it. Normal girls will be offended.
16. Arrive 5 minutes late preferably
17. Look nice. Don't look like a pauper. Be simple at best.
18. Be willing to pay for everything. Again. It's just a simple date with drinks for God's sakes. It should be cheap. You're not buying her a rolls royce, pay up!
These rules are specifically and mainly for beginners. If you're pretty experienced you might not need these. If you go for first date sex (as i often times do), you might not need some of these rules. (2nd date sex is safer)
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