Here's how to know if you're in love or you just have Oneitis
Answer this and be truthful to yourself first and foremost
°How would I feel in 3 months if this woman suddenly dumps me and I never see her again?
If you picked the first option, you're experiencing Oneitis my brother
If you love a woman yet you're fine if you lose her forever, it's easy to show the love you feel
If instead you're afraid to lose her, then you need to stand in front of a mirror and deal with your issues my gee
Oneitis starts from you
I have a favorite girl and I love her. She's very pleasant to be with. We've been together for 3 years and I really enjoy her company. A very submissive woman who sex gets better with everytime. Only 1 argument in 3 years as opposed to all monogamous relationships I see
If for any reason this girl ups and leaves me, i swear my life will continue uninterrupted. My happiness will continue regardless. My life is bigger than her and while i love her, she's simply a speck in it.
That's how to love someone
You have to love yourself first
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A lot of men take things too personal. They complain that the girl is at fault when really they're just touchy, insecure and emotional guys. You can't have long term, low drama relationships with women if you don't learn emotional control.
You can't have long term, low drama relationships if you get furiously jealous every time she talks to another guy.
If you explode into a million pieces every time she says something you don't like.
If you always think you're in love with a woman when really you have Oneitis
When a guy comes to me for advise about a particular woman, I've noticed that a good deal of you simply have fragile egos. Everything upsets you. Everything gets to you.
Your prissy little feelings are always being hurt...
The typical and unhappy Nigerian woman isn't clinging to her husband out of love. Marriages last in Nigeria not because of anything special. It's seems to last here because in economically risky countries, divorce isn't common. Women fear moving out on their own
Women in Nigeria stay in marriages not because they want to, but because they don't have the money to leave. Think about that next time someone wants to use a marriage that has lasted long as a marriage that is also happy
I'm not saying there aren't long lasting, happy marriages... I'm saying they aren't in the majority. Most marriages of today that have lasted long aren't happy. They're tolerant and tired.