A lot of men take things too personal. They complain that the girl is at fault when really they're just touchy, insecure and emotional guys. You can't have long term, low drama relationships with women if you don't learn emotional control.
You can't have long term, low drama relationships if you get furiously jealous every time she talks to another guy.

If you explode into a million pieces every time she says something you don't like.

If you always think you're in love with a woman when really you have Oneitis
When a guy comes to me for advise about a particular woman, I've noticed that a good deal of you simply have fragile egos. Everything upsets you. Everything gets to you.

Your prissy little feelings are always being hurt...

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In some scenarios you'll see that the woman even seems to have more emotional control and calm than the man. This is not an ideal situation. If anybody should be losing their head, it should be the girl...not you my brothers
Learn how to calm down
Learn how to stop giving a shit
Learn that she's a woman and she says absolute bullocks that makes no sense to you as a man, therefore it deserves no seriousness from your part

If a child says the same thing, you won't notice
Your relationship with a woman isn't about her. It's about your long term happiness. If she's not conducive to your long term happiness then she needs to go.
This doesn't mean you're a selfish bastard. It just means you shift your focus.
Stop focusing on every little thing she does and instead focus more on yourself, be self aware
This self awareness allows you to know when you're taking shit too personally or when you should simply ignore it. It allows you to know when you actually have no valid reason to be upset and your ego is just working against you
Emotional control is a core aspect of being Zen

Don't be an NCA, unless you like the drama, stress, easily hurt egos and such
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30 Dec 20
Emotional control also comes down to knowing what is BEYOND your control
The NCA needs to be in control. Because he needs it, that's where all the neediness, drama and Oneitis comes into play
A Zen Alpha recognizes that he has a desire to be in control, but he also knows that he can't successfully control/force anyone to do anything
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30 Dec 20
Here's how to know if you're in love or you just have Oneitis

Answer this and be truthful to yourself first and foremost

°How would I feel in 3 months if this woman suddenly dumps me and I never see her again?
If you picked the first option, you're experiencing Oneitis my brother
If you love a woman yet you're fine if you lose her forever, it's easy to show the love you feel

If instead you're afraid to lose her, then you need to stand in front of a mirror and deal with your issues my gee

Oneitis starts from you
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29 Dec 20
18 First Date Rules that'll improve your results with women
1. Never compliment her appearance even if she asks
2. Avoid saying anything outside a brief interesting story about yourself and simple questions for her
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29 Dec 20
The Format works

Purchase my book; The Format via Okada Books: okadabooks.com/book/about/det…

If that's too much stress, dm me to purchase it at N3000

See my pinned tweet for further info on the book

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28 Dec 20
The typical and unhappy Nigerian woman isn't clinging to her husband out of love. Marriages last in Nigeria not because of anything special. It's seems to last here because in economically risky countries, divorce isn't common. Women fear moving out on their own
Women in Nigeria stay in marriages not because they want to, but because they don't have the money to leave. Think about that next time someone wants to use a marriage that has lasted long as a marriage that is also happy
I'm not saying there aren't long lasting, happy marriages... I'm saying they aren't in the majority. Most marriages of today that have lasted long aren't happy. They're tolerant and tired.
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Here's a short list of things to do to make her pussy dryer than a desert #SaveAMan
1. Text her everyday
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