Early maturity is only good on paper: only poor people suffer more in Africa. Early maturers suffer loneliness, more burdens from their parents, & more stringent standards from their societies. Because for every 1 early maturer, there are 100 Charlies taking their time.
People abuse early maturers. You use them only as vessels, and therapists. Women use them for advice on men; men use them as designated drivers, or simply ATM machines. Early maturers demand so little of society, and instead of being grateful, society gives them even less.
Parents upon discovering early maturity in their kids, saddle them with even more responsibility: responsibility that should be shared across all siblings. They are made into substitute parents. It is no wonder early maturers develop avoidant attachment.
You conveniently assume just because they do not mention it, they do not see the discrepancy in the ways you treat them vis-à-vis their siblings. Early maturers spend their lives listening & solving your problems. Nobody ever asks who helps them with their problems. Nobody!
People get drunk all they want, because the early maturer will drive them home. Parents stifle their privileges because they don't fuss. Society is so punishing to them because they expect better of them. You impose old men standards on 25 year olds because they "understand".
Everybody should learn to solve their own problems. Stop draining early maturers with issues you should have handled years ago. You love being listened to but never change. You speak of bad energy, but you are the bad energy. It is time you matured up.
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