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10 Jan, 4 tweets, 1 min read
The "loud struggler" publicizes their pain for gain

Can be for money, guilt tripping for entry to something exclusive, etc

Even communicating struggle in private with peers

They typically won't have a solution & will lose respect for you
It is unnatural to publicly cry of struggle

It is best in private, often with a stranger

Someone who directly offers clarity & solutions

Talking with a stranger (paid advisor or a community)

Who has overcome what you are now facing will provide the most clarity & resolution
The more problems someone has
The less solutions they have

The less capable they appear of solving problems

This is interpreted unconsciously as low value

Talking to your homies, a girl, even your parents

Respect is lost for you the more problems & less solutions you have
I didn't make human nature

If you don't like it, go talk to the people in the sky

Men suffer in silence because respect is like oxygen for men

You don't need to fight alone

Get a advisor
Join a community
or make a account here or on a forum

But NOT with peers

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11 Jan
Never stop flirting

- He gets some followers

Then loses his charisma, puts in less effort, switches to a weird know it all tone

- He gets into a relationship

Then charm goes away, puts in low effort

His positive gains are temporary, because his positive actions are temporary
I've heard people say "the universe will test you"

it'll test to see if you really about that life

ultimately seeing DO YOU BELONG:

does a result make you change your behavior? is this unfamiliar to you?

if yes, you don't belong

you will be kicked out & will lose the result
if you freak out making $100,000, then go flexing on IG like 'you made it'

Clearly $100,000 is a big deal to you
You don't belong

You'll get kicked out

You'll lose it & go right back to where you belong

We ALWAYS find a way back to what we THINK we deserve
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10 Jan
*Thread* - (e)motion

Manipulate Energy, leverage emotions, & defeat low energy
Emotion = energy in motion

You don't own feelings, they are not who you are

Just like you don't own radio stations you tune into

Feelings are signals of the amount of energy around you & flowing through you
If you are feeling low energy it means high energy is unfamiliar to you

Depression = Repression

It's a lack of expression - cells, brain, body

Energy is not flowing

If you were to:
- Exercise intensely
- Do something creatively stimulating (socializing, writing, producing)
Read 16 tweets
9 Jan
*Thread* - Discipline is bull****

There's only 2 things which GUARANTEE you get things done 👇🏼 Image
Fear can push you forward or push you back

It depends where you place it

Place it behind you & the fear pushes you forward

This is when non-negotiable commitment is made externally

- Job
- Clients expecting work
- Followers awaiting a launch/set schedule of content
When the fear is in front of you it pushes you back

Discipline is stronger reactive vs proactive

Proactive is when despite no immediate rewards/consequences you force yourself to do something with willpower

Putting the fear behind you adds consequences for not getting it done
Read 19 tweets
8 Jan
Converting "should do" to "must do" resolves discipline

Discipline is stronger reactive than proactive

I had PT clients, already paid a premium

It was never a choice to make. It took no willpower or discipline to show up

It was a must
Not doing it was never a consideration
Consequences motivate more than incentives

Fear can be leveraged to work for you via responsibility

When something is a 'should' it means there is only upside

When something is a 'must' not doing it means pain & downside

Get biology on your side, commit & leverage fear
Procrastination can carry on for infinity without deadlines

If I had a client at 8AM
I would always get there & get it done

Because there was consequences, fear, responsibility, my word, my integrity, my reputation, reciprocity to earn what I was paid to do

Skin in the game
Read 4 tweets
7 Jan
*Thread* - Spiritual Warfare

Victory in the Earth Game - Energy, Spirit, Passion, Motivation, Power Image
"Spiritual warfare" is being thrown around a lot

Pointing at the bad guys is not a solution

It solves nothing, makes them alert, & gets you silenced

Darkness is the absence of light
Darkness can not be deleted or defeated

Only adding more light resolves it
The earth game we are playing is not to remove the darkness

It's to increase the light

If you are broke & you remove somebody who is rich

You are still broke

Removing the light or darkness from someone else does not increase your light
Read 19 tweets
7 Jan
*Thread* - Biology makes psychology

Ignore the pseudo philosophers, chest beating 'alpha' bros, & psychological dweebs

Motivation, energy & discipline is NOT mental
(e)motion is energy in motion

Lacking energy & having to study 'mental models' for discipline to get anything done is not normal

Your parents & their parents weren't watching motivational & 'stoic' content to figure out how to have energy

They just got things done & had energy
- Blood Pressure
- Resting Heart Rate
- Hemoglobin (Blood Sugar)
- Testosterone
- Thyroid
- Liver

All of these you can get tested tomorrow for around $150

Direct visit to the lab, no doctors appointment needed
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