1/
#WhatsYourWhy: Day 5 of 7

Neighborhood Pizza Spot

Them: “Hey doc. . . gon' be a few more minutes.”
Me: *pinching down nose of my mask* “No prob.”
Them: “Sorry ‘bout that. You doing okay?”
Me: “Yup—you?”
Them: “Hangin' in.”

I nodded and stepped over to the side to wait.
2/
Them: *calling to back* “Y’all almost got that Brooklyn Style XL ready?”

Someone yelled back that it was coming out now. They looked over at me and gave me a thumbs up. I returned the gesture.

Them: “Bet y’all super busy. This pandemic is still bad!”
Me: *sigh* “Yeah.”
3/
A man walked in with a fluffy salt and pepper beard peaking around his mask. Without getting a name, they handed him two pizzas.

Man: “Be safe!”
Them: “You, too!”

Be safe.
You, too.

Me: “I love how you know everyone.”
Them: “I do know y’all!”

That made me smile.
4/
Them: “I mean, some of y’all order the EXACT same thing on the same day--EVERY time.”
Me: “Yeah? What about us?”
Them: “Brooklyn Style XL pepperoni. On Fridays.”
Me: “Wow.”
Them: “Although y’all did go through that pineapple phase.”

*laughter*

Me: “Dang, you good.”
5/
Them: *looking over shoulder* “They slicing you up now, doc.”
Me: *thumbs up*

*silence*

Me: “Hey. . . what's your thoughts on taking a #COVIDVaccine when you can?”
Them: “Oh. I think everyone should take if. F'sho.”
Me: “That’s what’s up.”

Yay. That's what's up.
6/
Them: “I mean, I don’t have to take it since I had #COVID in May. But I been telling everybody they need to get it.”

Skrrrrrrrt.

Me: *looking up from phone* “Wait. Repeat that?”
Them: “Oh. I had it already. I mean, thank God, I didn’t get hella sick. But yeah, I had it.”
7/
Them: "I ain't tell you that?"
Me: “No. . .but I’m glad you're OK.”
Them: “You ain’t kiddin’. I was shook.”
Me: “Dag. I bet you were.”

Shook.
How apropos.

Whew.

Me: “But. . .hey listen. You know that even if you had #COVID infection, you still need to get the vaccine.”
8/
Them: “Waymint. Say what now?”
Me: “Yeah, fam. Even folks who had #COVID still need to get the vaccine.”
Them: *squinting* “That don’t even make sense.”

Fair. It kind of doesn't follow logic.

Them: *shaking head* “Nah. The infection naturally does what the vaccine does.”
9/
Me: “Well . . . kinda sorta. But not really. It’s crazy but you know how when you get infected, your body fights it, right?”
Them: “Right. . .”
Me: “Like, you make antibodies and stuff and your body remembers it to fight later.”
Them: "Exactly."
10/
Me: “Yeah, so what’s bugged out about #COVID is that some people get infected and make good antibodies and some don’t. And the ones they DO make, we not even sure how well they work.”
Them: “For real?”
Me: “Yup. It’s like a crap shoot. You might be protected, you might not.”
11/
Them: “Daaaaag. All this time I been thinking I don't need it. Do I really?”
Me: “I mean. . are you good at craps?”

*laughter*

Them: “Terrible.”
Me: "Then yeah."

We both laughed again.

Me: “Yeah you need to get it. To make sure you roll that 7 11 for antibodies."
12/
Them: “Okay! I see you knowing about craps, doc.”

*laughter*

They reached over to grab the box with our pizza.

Them: “Piping hot.”
Me: “Thanks. Okay, so what’s up with you and this vaccine?”
Them: “Wheeew. You headcracked me with that info. I gotta think on it, doc.”
13/
Me: “We can talk about any questions you have next week.”
Them: “Yeah, at the Friday pizza appointment.”

*laughter*

Me: *balancing box and pushing through door* “Alright then, fam.”
Them: “Alright then. See you next time, doc.”

Be safe.
You, too.

And that was that.
14/

A belief that they didn’t need it.
Unsure after learning otherwise.

And a doctor that they see every Friday who orders the same thing.

These were their whys.

Theirs.

I’m not sure if pineapple on pizza engenders trust. But relationships do.

Yup.

#BlackWhysMatter

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I stood with my gloved hands folded as she approached my station.

Her: *calling out* “Sorry I’m moving so slow.
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Parking lot

I was walking to my car and saw 2 men next to a car and laughing. They appeared relaxed with one another.

Me: *waving* “Y’all doing alright?”
Them: *waving back* “Good and you?”
Me: “Trying to make it.”

They gave knowing nods.
2/
"Trying to make it."
An expression Black folks know well.

Yup.

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The other had on a thread-bare short-sleeved t-shirt & a neck gaiter over his nose.
3/
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He rubbed his dark brown arms and laughed.

Hoodie: “Nah, the ashiness is protective.”

*laughter*

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She's a Delta.🔺

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A whole lot.

Damn, they were scared.
2/
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Her: "Wait. Can I see your hand?"

She slowly turned over my right hand, gasped and then looked over at her sister.

Her: *whispering to sister* "You see that?"
3/
The other sister closed her eyes. Then she smiled and then nodded slowly.

Sister: "You're our soror."

She shook her head and released a big relieved sigh.

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Damn, it was beautiful.
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#WhatsYourWhy: Day 2 of 7

Cashier

Them: *ringing up items* “You find everything okay?”
Me: “Yup.”
Them: “I like your hair.”
Me: “Hey—thanks.”
Them: *nods while continuing to swipe items*

*beep-beep-beep*

Them: “Is that highlights? Or . . . .“
Me: “Grey?”

*laughter*
2/
Me: “Yup. I’m openly grey.”

*laughter*

Them: “Well, it’s working for you.”
Me: “’Preciate that.”

*beep-beep-beep*

Me: “Can I ask you a question since you got all up in my grey-hair business?”

*laughter*

Me: “You getting the #COVIDVaccine when it’s offered to you?”
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Them: *raises eyebrows*
Me: “Ha ha ha that’s not a answer.”

*laughter*

Them: “Wait--you a doctor or something?”
Me: *patting my head* “One with grey hair, yes.”
Them: *laughing* “You funny. But nah, doc. I’m cool on that vaccine.”

“Cool on” the vaccine. Hmmm.
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#WhatsYourWhy: Day 1 of 7

Delivery man

Me: "You being safe out there?"
Him: "You already know what it is. Got the hand sanitizer, back up masks, all that!"

*laughter*

Me: "Dang, you even wearing gloves."
Him: "Got a whole box in the truck. I ain't playin'!"

*laughter*
2/
Me: "That's what's up."
Him: *turns to walk off*
Me: "Hey. . . .you planning to get the #COVIDVaccine when you can get it?"

He stopped in the middle of the lawn. Then he pulled his head back and then cocked it to one side.

Him: "Am I gon' what?"

Rut roh.
3/
Me: *talking from doorway* "Get the vaccine to prevent #COVID19."
Him: *squinting eyes and (probably) smirking under mask* "Are you crazy?"

*silence*

Him: "Heeeeeeellllll yeah I'm getting that shot! Shoot, you got one in your house?"

*laughter*
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1/
This car pulled up to a 4 way stop just after me the other morning. On my left. As I pulled out, they did, too.

We nearly collided.

After a brief pause, I continued. Moments later, the driver swooped alongside me, extended an arm over the passenger seat, & flipped me off.
2/
Then, they sped off. But got stuck at the red light just ahead.

2 lanes. An empty street. On an early morning.

And this person in a car now beside me who, after not having the right of way, decided to greet me with a middle finger.

Mmm hmmm.
3/
Did I mention that this was on December 26? And that I'd worked not only on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day--but 12 consecutive days before?

And where I come from? Flipping folks off is not compatible with life.

Or at least compatible with not having it threatened.
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