It’s frightening slash amazing to watch what topics men can write and speak on, whilst people defend their right to free speech versus which topics women can’t write and speak on whilst people call for them to be killed, sacked, silenced and abused.
Misogyny is alive and well.
Male academics and theorists: Black people have smaller brains. Women need their wombs ripping out. People with disabilities should be locked up. Kill female foetuses. Women bring rape on themselves
World: wow that’s so insightful and thought provoking, we should totally listen
Female academics and theorists: we need to have clear discussions about topics which are controversial, and women need to be able to talk freely and openly about theories and policies without fear of violence or death
World: shut the fuck up you ugly stupid c*nt k1ll yourself
Like we are literally STILL platforming men from all different disciplines who pushed some of the most dangerous and abusive practices, theories and thoughts about groups of people and no one is saying shit. No one is removing them from curriculums or calling for their deaths
But all hell breaks loose when a woman says she has a view on a highly debated and contested theory.
Sorry but I’m not seeing men get silenced, sacked, threatened or abused for arguing about theories. Even the pro-paedophile academics get an easier time than female academics
There was a book released last year which argued that white rich men were the most oppressed group in the world and female rape victims had the most privilege - the author argued that black people were being given decent jobs bc of PC gone mad
Who no platformed that idiot?
No one!
He got a piece in the NYT and his book was featured everywhere as a huge think piece
HE REFERENCED BLOGS
I teach at universities where old theories written by men about women being more like to ‘precipitate’ their own victimisation are still being taught uncritically to students.
Who is calling for those to be removed??
I’m sick of people violently going after women with opinions they don’t like whilst the same group of people will platform male academics giving speeches about reducing the age of consent or how paedophiles should be given infant sex dolls - and apparently that’s free speech!
You have to be wilfully ignorant not to be able to see the contrasts here. Women are being hunted down and attacked for simply questioning theories, whilst men are lauded and supported as leaders of free speech for fuckin seminars on how to get away with rape.
Open your eyes.
And I say this as someone who deliberately reads and learns about the views of people I really really cannot stand. I bought that idiot’s book and studied it. I wanted to know how he would argue that white men were oppressed. I don’t hide from views I don’t like.
But it’s SO obvious who is being shut down and who isn’t.
I read a book recently which was essentially arguing that women should be oppressed and subordinate. That men need to dominate and abuse women for masculinity etc.
It was vile. But it’s not been shut down, has it?
I spent 2 yrs reading pro-paedophilia articles, blogs and studies just to see how it was all being argued. Some of those academics are heads of departments/funded researchers in decent unis - they are protected by ‘free speech’ and ‘free thought’
Why doesnt this extend to women?
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Single sex spaces are essential to trauma informed approaches and services - this isn’t through hatred, bigotry or exclusion. We have to retain the right to support safe spaces when oppressed and abused groups need them, without others arguing that they are offensive or harmful.
The demonisation of sexual and domestic violence services as groups of hate filled women is terrifying. There would be no rape centres or DV services without women who tirelessly built these safe spaces for women and girls subjected to male violence.
Women and girls have needed safe spaces away from male violence for centuries. We achieved that of our own accord in the 60s thanks to feminists before us. They weren’t developed out of hatred for others, but out of need to protect and give them single sex spaces.
This is a reminder to all the women who told their families that they were raped or abused but they didn’t believe you:
Their disbelief is an issue which sits within them, not you. Their refusal to believe you isn’t about your own credibility or reality. It’s their denial.
You don’t have to carry their denial. You don’t have to prove to them that you’re telling the truth.
Their denial says more about them, than you.
They are protecting themselves instead of protecting you. They would rather frame you as lying than acknowledge your truth.
These are not your errors, faults or values.
It’s normal to feel completely betrayed by them. Often, we think our families and parents will be the ones to believe us and be there - and it hurts even more when they are the ones who blame or deny it ever happened.
White politicians referring to white CSE victims as ‘our girls’ is a whole heap of racism, misogyny and sexualisation of girls which implies that only white men can rape and abuse them, and that they don’t care about the rape and abuse of Black and minority ethnic girls at all.
The systemic racism in CSE continues, as it always has done. Lots of people are invested in pretending that the majority of perps are South Asian, despite the majority of perps (87%) being White British.
But this rhetoric about owning the girls.... ‘they raped ‘our girls’ is 🤢
It’s literally the exact same mantra and slogan as EDL. All of their banners and arguments were ‘Muslims are raping our white girls’
What?
Since when did those pricks care about child abuse at all?
Well, they didn’t, until they decided they owned all white girls.
Men don’t rape or abuse women because they need more education, counselling or advice.
They do it because they want to, because they can, because they know that society doesn’t believe women & because the chances of prosecution are less than 1%
No sex offender turns around after 6 sessions or an educational video and says, ‘oh my god, you’re right, I’m an abusive, violent rapist and need to change my own behaviour, and stop targeting women and girls and then blaming it on them.’
It’s time to stop saying things like:
‘If they just knew more about consent/healthy relationships/abuse/misogyny - then they wouldn’t behave like this’
What makes you think that they don’t understand consent?
They do, that’s WHY they rape women who don’t want it
For years, more and more services that should be statutory and government funded have had to be replaced with charities and donations because the govt stops funding them. To the point where we are literally donating now to schools, NHS, foodbanks & shelter.
Govt isn’t even providing basic human rights at this point, and we are all expected to be so happy when someone walks up a mountain or releases a song to donate to a service that we literally pay taxes for already.
No one should be having to raise money for stat services.
But it’s framed as positive isn’t it? An elderly man raises millions for the NHS and he’s a bloody hero. He is. Of course. But why on earth did he even need to do that? The NHS isn’t a charity. It’s supposed to be funded correctly to function.