Women talk a lot that's why their problems are known and attended to but we can't say the same for men.

Men aren't supposed to "whine" about their problems but unfortunately, their shortcomings are talked about thereby ignoring their sufferings.

Man up, suck it up, be a man...
... has taken many men to their early graves.
Men are not commandos or terminators or immortals the society is expecting them to be, if they were there won't be a high rate of male suicide, depression, we won't have young vibrant men slump and die on daily basis.
So, they need to talk to let the world know that men suffer such burdens because many people are ignorant of men's suffrage, now couple that with the constant demonization of men and boys in the name of fighting for women.
Men suffer abuses as well.

Now, that brings me to the
thread, men's abuse.

Please, share that abuse you've suffered from a woman be it your mother, sister, aunty, female cousin, female colleague, girlfriend, wife etc.

That abuse that made you think that men need a support system, NGOs like @MenMatterFdn . Share it, our
Men and boys need attention and support.

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More from @Ada_di_ora_mma

18 Feb
Many men would have been at a higher level if not for shouldering family responsibilities.

But why should they complain when they willingly started family right? Also complaining and whining are women's job.

"Women are the real VIP for their decisions"

Men are what?
Do you know how many investment plans most men have but couldn't achieve?

Many men don't receive love from their children because their jobs required them to be absent?

Imagine hustling under sun and rain to take care of your children only for them to have little or no love
...and respect for you.

Many men sacrificed the desire to be loved and respected in order to provide for his family. What sacrifice is greater than that?

Making sacrifices for people that may never recognize you as a brick talk more of a pillar of their lives.
Read 7 tweets
16 Feb
After men send their daughters to school from pre nursery to university, in some cases, masters and PhD level, and then these women worked hard to get to the great height they are in, you will come out and start shouting feminism.

They don't identify as feminists not because
They have no regards for the role feminism has played in women's education and social rights but they can't give feminism the credit for their parents' efforts and that of theirs.

If every successful woman gives credit to feminism, what happens to the men that created...
... civilization in the first place?
Even after everything men have done, feminists are still making demands in 2021, now they still want to take glory for individual efforts.

Feminists are so quick to claim successful women that they contributed not to on a personal level,
Read 11 tweets
12 Jan
Let's talk about hierarchy in marriage.
A woman put up a tweet about the things she learned from her failed marriage. She and her ex-husband dated for 4 years, got married and divorced 13 months later.

She put down a quite number of things that ruined their marriage and
According to her, the major one was disagreement. They argue a lot over decision making, in her words "that's what really broke us".
At the end she said that she's happier, healthier now and looking forward to a better relationship.

From her tweet, you will think that she learnt
her mistake but she didn't. Her advice is, find a partner that you can easily come to an agreement with but that's not all it is to it.

I will explain;
Humans as an entity can not function without hierarchy. Primary school pupils have a class monitor, teachers have a headmaster
Read 15 tweets
11 Jan
On this SMAN and SWAN issue, we need to be realistic and ask the necessary question.
Why are you dating?

For a high value man who has his life together and is not ready to settle down, what does he need from a girlfriend?

Let me break it down;
He's successful, he can hire a cook, a cleaner, he has male friends with connections in high places, he has his parents who pray for him.... He practically has his life together, what can a girlfriend offer him?

He doesn't need you to cook for him, clean his house or pray for
Him.

Now, are we going to agree that it's all about sex, no.

A high value man wants a high value woman. The question now is what makes a high value woman?

Let me lend you what I learnt from Kevin Samuels.

Things that make a high value;
Read 15 tweets
9 Jan
From feminists' book, men and women came into this world at the same time. Some feminist scientists believe that women existed before men, era of matriarch.

Now from history, one of the oppressions women suffered was deprivation of education.
If women existed at the same time
or before men, why were men able to invent education and prevented women from participating?

2. Inability to vote: men founded the system of leadership and didn't allow women to participate in the selection of leaders?

3. From Stone age, men invented houses and didn't allow
Women to own any.
4. They invented money and means of trading and didn't allow women to participate.

5. They discovered all the natural resources and means of processing them.

6. They invented technology and all the corporate companies.

7. They discovered all parts of the
Read 12 tweets

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