I get into an argument
with a man, I slap him,
they tell me I have no
respect, no home
training. I should have
been quiet, I should have
been patient. I should
apologize to him.
Because I am a woman, I
don't have a right to be
angry. So, the degree of
my innocence is directly
proportional to the
degree of my silence in
the face of oppression
& brutality.....
Because I am a woman,
my husband cheats on
me, I am told to tolerate it
to save my marriage. The
barbaric & stupid
excuse is that ''it is in
their nature to cheat, I
should slim down,😲
dress better, cook better, pray harder & be more
pleasant to him"😲
I cheat, & I am called a
whore, I have committed
an abomination, I have no
right to look elsewhere
for the love & emotional support I lack
at home, I am an
irresponsible mother.
So I am sent packing,
from the home we both
built, with all my earthly
possessions stuffed into
a tiny box on my head. I
am henceforth forbidden
from seeing my two older
children, I'm lucky to be
allowed to go with my
little one still suckling on
my left breast.😪😥
Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now,my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman.
He is 28 & runs a
company. He's tagged
wonderful, hardworking,
focused, career oriented,
successful at a very
young age.
I am 28 & I run a
company "Hmmmm....
she is not even married,
unserious, can not order
her priorities right, a
hustler, loves money, let
her go & get a husband
oh"
And I wonder if being
successful has anything
to do with a person's
gender.
Because I am a woman,
I am not allowed to have
wits or be a prodigy,
I cannot be financially
buoyant, professionally
successful or be treated
with respect without a
man beside me.
Then I am tagged a
generous leg opener, "a
runs girl"
They never see
the possibility that
I actually had to go
through ups & downs
to get to where I am,
because I am a woman.
A man looses his wife to
death & remarries a
year after, he did the right
thing, he's being praised
& congratulated for
moving on,
after all life is for the living.
A woman loses her
husband to death &
remarries after 4yrs,
"aaah! so early? Are u
sure she wasn't sleeping
with that man even when
her husband was alive?
That was why she killed
her husband. She's a
witch! Because she's a
woman.
Because I am a woman,
this post will be
considered controversial,
& everyone will try to
correct me. But don't
forget that I am a woman
& it does not make me
less human!!!
Share to respect some
woman & Tell your
woman that you love
her💖
*Who is a woman?????*
When she is quiet,
millions of things are
running through her
mind. When she stares at
you, she is wondering
why she loves you so
much in spite of being
taken for granted. When
she says I will stand by
you, she will stand by you
like a solid rock.
Never hurt her or take her for granted. A very heart
touching message by a
woman. Someone asked
her, Are you a working
woman or a housewife?
She replied : Yes, I am a
full-time working
housewife. I work 24
hours a day. I'm a Mum.
I'm a Wife. I'm a
Daughter.
I'm a Daughter-
in-law. I'm an Alarm
clock. I'm a Cook. I'm a
Maid. I'm a Teacher. I'm a
Waitress. I'm a Nanny.
I'm a Nurse. I'm a
Handywoman. I'm a
Security officer. I'm a
Counsellor. I'm a
Comforter. I don't get
holidays. I don't get sick
leave. I don't get day off.
I work through day &
night. I'm on call all hours
& get paid with a
sentence. "What Do U Do
All Day??"
This Is Dedicated to all
women*** A Woman has
the most unique
character like salt!!! Her
presence is never
remembered, but her
absence makes all the
things tasteless.
Pass it to all the lovely ladies...Ur Mother. Ur Wife. Ur daughter. Ur sister & Ur
friend.
Forward to every woman
to make her smile & to
every man to make him
realize a woman's worth.
Share to your friends now✊
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Most Healers start helping people way before they are even initiated or trained as Traditional healers. Some heal through advise, positive messages of reinforcement, motivation & encouragement, self -less acts of love & devotion & many other ways to help & grow others.🙏💖
Each practicing healer should have a signature treatment or imbiza / impande, I am not talking about herbal medicine lists from kwaGobela ....I am talking about herbal gifts from your Spiritual Guides giving you a list of imithi to use kwi-mbiza & iziwasho zakho.
There are many traditional healers with specialization & as you grow spiritually that is when you become a leader in what you do; this is no different from Western Doctors ✨As Healers we are always referring people to other healers who specialize in certain things like readings,
i see a lot of people on social media trying to teach others how to phahla.
I think it's a good thing. But dangerous to be selective about the info you give people. People take your half information & invite dark spirits into their lives.
The chosen are lucky because they have teachers. But I feel for the normal spiritual seeker, because let's be honest most of our parents don't even want to hear about Ancestors.
I'm sure there are many ways to phahla effectively, but I'd like to share here what worked for me
after months of trying, & getting no feedback .
ITEMS TO HELP YOU CONNECT
Mpepho
Incense sticks
Snuff
Water
Alcohol
Glass of water
Candles
If you are a chosen, you need to get your guides what they like ..... some Spirits do not use mpepho.
Your Spiritual Guides know & understand your personal circumstances, they know why you are living in a rented place & why you have moved around. We change our places of residence due to better career opportunities,
family committments or challenges, loss of assets & financial abundance amongst other things.
So what happens when you suddenly are not living at home, can you phahla? The answer is yes, you can create a prayer corner/altar/shrine & you send your location 📍 to them
by reporting that you have relocated due to certain circumstances or conditions.
You ask your Spiritual messengers for Protection, Guidance, love 💘 & Light over your life ✨
He was an African child
Rooted to Ancestors who dwelled in the wild!
He had a soul of IDLOZI thou his body represented humankind
But to him IDLOZI didn’t exist
He dreamt of it all but he continued to resist
Because Western education had corrupted his mind…
He got sick & only the Ancestors had the power to save his life
AMAKHOSI said ‘VUMA’ & we will also bless you with a wife,
He was skeptical about it but He wanted to live
After so many challenges He was desperate to achieve...
IDLOZI LATHI ‘this is what you must bring & give’
He had to climb mountains & hunt monsters that kill
He had to be naked,
And have his body covered with sand then initiate where the river is deep…
One night, He found snakes wrapped around him when He woke from his sleep…