To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that prisoner was you.
Often we think that by forgiving we are setting someone else free from their regrets or guilt, but no we are freeing ourselves of that burden.
A wonderful point from @warikoo’s newsletter today.
Often we think that by forgiving we are setting someone else free from their regrets or guilt, but no we are freeing ourselves of that burden.
A wonderful point from @warikoo’s newsletter today.
There is a beautiful story about Nelson Mandela.
He was imprisoned for 27 years, often tortured and humiliated by the jailers at the prison.
He was released and eventually went on to become the President of South Africa.
He was imprisoned for 27 years, often tortured and humiliated by the jailers at the prison.
He was released and eventually went on to become the President of South Africa.
For his swearing-in ceremony, he ensured that he invited all the jailers of the same prison he was in.
Others asked him, perplexed, "Why would you want to invite them? These are the same people who tortured you, humiliated you, laughed at you, while you were in prison."
Others asked him, perplexed, "Why would you want to invite them? These are the same people who tortured you, humiliated you, laughed at you, while you were in prison."
To which, Nelson Mandela replied, "If I didn't invite them, I'd still be in prison"
(because his mind would still be in chains)
(because his mind would still be in chains)
He is often quoted to say:
As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison.
The truth is - it is insanely hard to apologize.
As I walked out the door toward the gate that would lead to my freedom, I knew if I didn't leave my bitterness and hatred behind, I'd still be in prison.
The truth is - it is insanely hard to apologize.
But I have to come to believe it is equally hard, if not more, to accept an apology.
And it is the rarest of virtues to forgive, without an apology.
Because we are hurt, angry, resentful, jealous, envious, bruised.
And it is the rarest of virtues to forgive, without an apology.
Because we are hurt, angry, resentful, jealous, envious, bruised.
And that we care for is for the other person to realize they are wrong.
Or to seek revenge for the wrong done to us.
Rarely stopping to recognize that not forgiving is only hurting us, in the process.
Or to seek revenge for the wrong done to us.
Rarely stopping to recognize that not forgiving is only hurting us, in the process.
We repeat the chain of events in our head multiple times over.
We keep thinking of what we should have said, how we should have reacted, how we were fooled.
We go over the scene multiple times over.
The other person hurt us just once.
We keep thinking of what we should have said, how we should have reacted, how we were fooled.
We go over the scene multiple times over.
The other person hurt us just once.
But we hurt ourselves multiple times over!
So in forgiveness, lies our escape.
Our freedom.
Our peace.
Try it :)
Courtesy- warikoo Wanderings by @warikoo
So in forgiveness, lies our escape.
Our freedom.
Our peace.
Try it :)
Courtesy- warikoo Wanderings by @warikoo
Give the world the best you have and there is a possibility that you may get kicked in the teeth.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives and being a show off.
Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have anyway.
If you do good, people will accuse you of selfish ulterior motives and being a show off.
Do good anyway.
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