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9 Mar, 11 tweets, 2 min read
This week our high-risk household is celebrating (commiserating?) 365 days in quarantine.

If you’re wondering what it means to go back to “normal,” I share your confusion. In so many ways we’ll never be the same.

Here’s what I think our new normal looks like.

(THREAD)
(2) Because I have two children too young to be vaccinated, one of whom is high risk, our new normal includes wearing masks for the foreseeable future.

There will be no birthday parties. No sleepovers. No family gatherings. That’s the normal this country has left us with.
(3) My new normal likely includes struggling with fierce agoraphobia and anxiety.

Continuing to track our exposure and limit interaction is the only weapon I have in the face of a red state government that insists on dropping mask mandates ASAP.
(4) Our new normal is struggling with the decision of whether or not to send my daughter, who is 9 and has the same high risk genetic disorder I do, back to school this fall.

She has no friends her age. Her little social world has shrunk to YouTube and MineCraft.
(5) Our new normal is struggling with whether or not to send our teenage son back to school this fall for his junior year even if he’s vaccinated. What about the variants? His exposure is our exposure.

This year he was supposed to learn to drive. Get a job. All that is gone.
(6) Our new normal is wondering if we’ll ever travel again. I had hoped to take the kids to national parks, more international trips. All that seems quite out of reach at the moment.

My husband isn’t even eligible to be vaccinated yet.
(7) Everyone keeps talking about getting us back to normal but for high risk households, there’s no normal to get back to.

The last year has proven this country has no compassion for the vulnerable. That we’re disposable. I don’t know what to do with that.
(8) A year ago the governor told high risk folks to hunker down and come back out when it was safe. And then proceeded to abandon us as case counts exploded.

It’s never been safe for us. It’s still not.
(9) I know the anti-mask crowd loves to talk about freedom. So let’s talk about it.

Your refusal to endure the inconvenience of a mask means I don’t have the freedom to leave my house safely. You’ve made your comfort my burden to bear.

That’s our new normal.
(10) In our new “normal,” certain people (even children) are still prisoners in their own home and this country shrugs and moves on without them.

So rush out to greet your new maskless “normal.” I’ll still be here. At home. Surviving the best I can.
(END) Thanks for stopping by for our Tuesday thread.

Please keep double masking. If not for you, than for us. Thank you!

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(3) After yesterday's hearing, Biden followed up with an announcement that he'll move to appoint three Democrats to fill vacancies on the USPS board of governors. This would give Dems the majority on the board.

Problem solved, right? Not so fast.

washingtonpost.com/business/2021/…
(4) There are two hurdles to jump. The first may not be a big deal but the second is nearly insurmountable at this point. Let me explain.

First, these nominees to fill the board openings have to be approved by the Senate. Sigh.

apnews.com/article/joe-bi…
(5) If we can get all three nominees onto the board without too much fuss, then we can fire DeJoy, right? Yeah, not so fast. One of the Dems on that board is actually a DINO and he's part of the problem.

Democrats would need his support to remove DeJoy.

slate.com/news-and-polit…
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I spent 2019 struggling with health issues that confounded diagnosis. In early 2020 I became convinced I had fibromyalgia & began exploring triggers & treatments.

Here's what I've learned after a year of living with fibromyalgia that might help others who are suffering.
(THREAD)
(2) FIBRO CAN FEEL DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE

For the longest time, I got hung up on the fact that I didn't have spots that were sore to the touch that followed those trigger point diagrams. Those diagrams are a VERY outdated way of diagnosing fibro.
(3) The light bulb went off when I went to see an ortho specialist who could manipulate trigger points in my neck to produce symptoms in various parts of my body.
I started to put the pieces together.
Read 31 tweets
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This morning we're asking why on earth Lindsay Graham is holding up the nomination of Merrick Garland?

Why is Graham still judiciary chair when Dems effectively won control of the Senate?
(THREAD)

thehill.com/homenews/senat…
(2) The short answer is Dems don't have committee control because an agreement hasn't been reached on power-sharing. I know we like to say Dems have "control" of the Senate but for all intents and purposes, the Senate is split evenly.

NO ONE HAS CONTROL

cnn.com/2021/02/02/pol…
(3) It's possible the Senate will pass a rules resolution on how the Senate will work today, but in the meantime, Durbin (the new judiciary chair) has been pushing Graham to schedule Garland's confirmation.

And Lindsey has found all sorts of excuses.

newsweek.com/lindsey-graham…
Read 11 tweets
2 Feb
Look. As a survivor I still get anxiety attacks on the regular and that shit has been buried and done for me for thirty years.

Fuck anyone minimizing the trauma sexual violence leaves behind to score political points today. #MeToo
(THREAD)
(2) When I was a rape crisis counselor I heard a prosecutor once say that he thought rape was the crime that inflicted the most trauma.

I was kind of floored. What about murder I asked.

He said most of the time you don’t have to live with the trauma of murder. You’re just dead.
(3) But victims of rape and sexual assault have to live with this trauma for the rest of their lives. It’s in the way they have to struggle to stay present or be intimate.

It’s in the anxiety attacks. The eating disorders.
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In today's #ThursdayThread, we're looking more closely at the Dem strategy moving forward. Will Democrats continue to fall for promises from the other side of the aisle or will they govern with the power of the mandate they've been given?

(THREAD)

washingtonpost.com/opinions/democ…
(2) There are some good indications that Schumer and Senate Democrats outmaneuvered Mitch McConnell quite neatly on the filibuster issue earlier this week and that they plan to move forward on stimulus without regard to GOP dissent.

thehill.com/homenews/senat…
(3) It's important to note that as much as the wins in Georgia provided Dems control of the Senate, they hold the slimmest of majorities in both chambers and that hampers their agenda.

Because of the filibuster, passing legislation requires 60 votes.

pbs.org/newshour/polit…
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Ok but stay with me here.

What if it’s more like big tobacco where the industry obscured the fact that their product was dangerous for decades and now can be held responsible for the effects of continuing to market something dangerous to the public under false pretenses.
Hell, even alcohol has warning labels about health risks. And strict rules about who, where, and how they can market their product to the public.

Where’s the warning for Fox News?
I don’t know ANY industry where you can market something with demonstrably false claims. In other industries you’d face fines from the federal government for misleading the public about your product. (Think FDA, EPA enforcement, etc). It should be the same for media.
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