Men, PLEASE start therapy NOW. You can literally tell you therapist, “Holly on Twitter told me to come here” if you think you don’t have anything to talk about.
The amount of weight and suffering women are carrying because men won’t do their own work makes me physically ill.
The amount of weight and suffering women are carrying because men won’t do their own work makes me physically ill.
And y’all, I’m talking about GOOD men putting women through exhausting, unnecessary pain and confusion, because they have not done any of the hard work of reflecting on themselves. I’m not referring to “bad” guys. I’m talking about good, faithful, responsible men causing harm.
I am blown away by the women I know seeking out health and wholeness with great effort and sacrifice. There are so many of us.
I’m tired of men being drug behind them towards healing if seeking it at all. Exhausted seeing men only seek therapy after a woman has asked them to.
I’m tired of men being drug behind them towards healing if seeking it at all. Exhausted seeing men only seek therapy after a woman has asked them to.
I don’t care if you are married, single & wanting partnership or single and planning for long-term singleness, go work out your stuff. And if you don’t think you have stuff, that is your stuff, promise. Your stuff is impacting not just women as romantic partners but every woman.
I’m not the only woman I know who is only half joking about asking for a letter from a therapist before going on a date with someone. Not only are we tired of being hurt, we are over carrying the responsibility of health and wholeness alone. We are better off healthy and single.
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