I want a world in which I don’t call the police because the police don’t protect women. I don’t want to be protected. Protection is conditional. I want patriarchy to stop protecting violent cis men. I want to be free of violence. (April 2020) 🎥 @rerutled
Police do not protect everyone. Ask Black, Indigenous, women of colour, trans women, sex workers.
Police in London did this to a woman at a vigil for a woman murdered by a police officer. It esp shocks many because murdered woman & this woman are white
And remember home is not safer.
This pandemic has been a horrifying reminder, with a spike globally in intimate partner terrorism and domestic abuse
“How long must we wait so that men stop raping us? What will it take so that men stop murdering us?”
This episode of an Australian show (Nov 2019) was banned because, among reasons, I asked “How many rapists must we kill before men stop raping women?”
I was accused of "inciting violence." Patriarchy is so universal and normalized that asking cis men to see it is like asking a fish “What is water?” It enables and protects cis men who assault women, and it demands that only other cis men “protect” us. feministgiant.com/p/i-beat-my-as…
Women are punished more severely for fighting back than are the men who beat or assault them. Prisons around the world are full of women who fight back and the streets are full of the men who assaulted them. theguardian.com/news/datablog/…
When I ask "how many rapists must we kill?" (I am not talking death penalty) there is more outrage at imaginary violence vs men that at actual daily violence vs women. Patriarchy’s copyright over violence has terrorized us into fear & submission. feministgiant.com/p/how-many-rap…
“I wrote this book with enough rage to fuel a rocket.”
The opening line to The Seven Necessary Sins For Women and Girls.
There is so much to rage against. Fuck the patriarchy in every time zone and every universe. The ebook is on sale for $2.99. penguinrandomhouse.com/books/609114/t…
Fuck the patriarchy in every time zone and every universe.
Whether we are urged to be civil to racists or polite to patriarchy, the goal is the same: to maintain the power of the racist, to maintain the power of patriarchy.
Men and women of all social classes were wearing eyeliner as early as 6000 BC in Egypt. I buzzed my hair because I feel freer this way. And my eyeliner is more obvious 📷 @rerutled
The hieroglyphic term for makeup artist derives from the root “sesh,” which translates to write or engrave. As I hold that eyeliner brush, I feel like a calligrapher, writing a letter of love to myself
I loved my red hair, which I had for eight years. But this buzzcut is a whole new level of power, that I write about here feministgiant.com/p/essay-the-ki…
Eyeliner is one of my joys. Men and women of all social classes were wearing eyeliner as early as 6000 BC in Egypt. 📷 @rerutled
The hieroglyphic term for makeup artist derives from the root “sesh,” which translates to write or engrave. As I hold that eyeliner brush, I feel like a calligrapher, writing a letter of love to myself feministgiant.com/p/deliberate-b…
The ancient Egyptian word for “makeup palette” derives from the word meaning “to protect.” My ancestors believed Kohl eyeliner protected them vs the harsh sunlight or the Evil Eye; I believe the eyeliner I apply every day protects me vs the harsh days of pandemic & perimenopause.
I had men in my apartment in Cairo when I lived there. This could’ve been me. Fuck this shit. This fucking week. My family lived in Clapham for years. I used to walk across the common to get to school. Fuck this shit.
I don’t know anything about this woman who was killed for having a man in her apartment, other than it could’ve been me.
Egypt, my country of birth, is the country with the largest # of women and girls subjected to FGM which is fueled by determination to control female sexuality
So a form of resistance is to say:
I own my body.
It is my right to have sex with whomever I want whenever I want (w/their consent obvs).
It is my right to have sexual with a man/men or a woman/women. My right. Because I own my body.
#Egypt this week: a man was arrested after he was caught on a closed circuit camera sexually assaulting a 7 year old girl aljazeera.com/news/2021/3/9/…
#Egypt this week: a 34 year old woman died after “falling” from her sixth story balcony after her landlord, doorman and another resident of her building attacked her for having a male colleague over to her apartment.
“I wrote this book with enough rage to fuel a rocket.”
The opening line to The Seven Necessary Sins For Women and Girls.
There is so much to rage against. Fuck the patriarchy in every time zone and every universe. The ebook is on sale for $2.99. penguinrandomhouse.com/books/609114/t…