I had men in my apartment in Cairo when I lived there. This could’ve been me. Fuck this shit. This fucking week. My family lived in Clapham for years. I used to walk across the common to get to school. Fuck this shit.
I don’t know anything about this woman who was killed for having a man in her apartment, other than it could’ve been me.
Egypt, my country of birth, is the country with the largest # of women and girls subjected to FGM which is fueled by determination to control female sexuality
So a form of resistance is to say:
I own my body.
It is my right to have sex with whomever I want whenever I want (w/their consent obvs).
It is my right to have sexual with a man/men or a woman/women. My right. Because I own my body.
That is the core of the sexual revolution
Like I said, I don’t know anything about the woman who was thrown off her balcony as punishment for having an unrelated man in her apartment.
I don’t know and I don’t care why he was there. She was an adult woman who had the right to have anyone she wanted in her apartment.
I own my body.
I decide what I do with my body.
It is my right to have sex with whomever and whenever I want.
Fuck the patriarchy in every time zone and every universe.
And cis heteropatriarchy assumes that a cis woman has sex with only cis men.
That is the subject for a while other thread.
Note also: the man who was I. This now dead woman’s apartment is still alive.
He was not thrown off the balcony for being in a woman’s apartment.
She was thrown off a balcony for having a man at her apartment.
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Police do not protect everyone. Ask Black, Indigenous, women of colour, trans women, sex workers.
Police in London did this to a woman at a vigil for a woman murdered by a police officer. It esp shocks many because murdered woman & this woman are white
And remember home is not safer.
This pandemic has been a horrifying reminder, with a spike globally in intimate partner terrorism and domestic abuse
“I wrote this book with enough rage to fuel a rocket.”
The opening line to The Seven Necessary Sins For Women and Girls.
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