For months, I have watched men in Australian media pretend to care about women who have been sexually assaulted, harassed & violated.
These are the same men who will verbally abuse women who speak up for women's rights.
I've had enough of this bullshit. So... Buckle up!
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A man masturbating on the desk of a female MP is one of the big new stories in AU right now, as is the reckoning of sexual assault against women.
I have my own story of male masturbation & this here publication, Junkee. @michellerennex
SPOILER ALERT: Junkee didn't give AF
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I was attacked on Twitter for defending McIver Ladies Baths when they were called "transphobic" due to their over 100 year status as a place exclusively for females.
The attacks on me escalated when Junkee staff members arrived. (Junkee, a new site, has since blocked me 🤷♀️)
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Then, a man came at me from an account featuring videos of him masturbating.
I'd already blocked him & when he came back at me with the new account it was clear the clips were intended for me to see. They were gross & disturbing. I Goggled & found his connections to Junkee.
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So I emailed the Junkee boss, who had joined in on calling me a TERF, a transphobe & celebrating me being silenced on Twitter.
Just as the Female MP on the receiving end of a man's masturbation fantasy felt violated, I too felt violated.
I was just defending a female space!
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The managing editor responded.
Now, I understand that, it turns out, Junkee has no jurisdiction over this guy b/c he hasn't written for the publication in some time. The M.E of Junkee could have said just that.
But no. He JUSTIFIED the behaviour. He's a "provocative artist"
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4 out of the 8 stories on Junkee's "Politics" page are to do with sexual assault & misogyny against women.
But, in my experience, their editorial staff do not practice what they preach. They're happy to justify the violation of a woman. I've experienced it.
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Brave women in Australia are raising the alarm about women's sex-based rights. For this we are attacked, doxxed, threatened & dismissed.
But I won't shut up.
And I will call out this disgusting double standard of men pretending they care about women when clearly they do not.
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If there is going to be a reckoning of women's treatment in Australia, it has to include ALL women. That is, ALL adult human females.
You can't ignore some women because they intimidate you or challenge your world view.
Misogyny is misogyny & all of it must be addressed.
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1. I'm the CEO of a platform for females & know I have a unique insight into the single sex space debate. I see it play out in real time.
During our 1st MVP test phase, 1000s of TW onboarded & created "KILL TERF" profiles.
Are we supposed to take these seriously or not?
2. I fought to include TW on Giggle but the reality is I fought not knowing the hostility of the situation. I was shocked & devastated by the KILL TERF & other obscene profiles, but...
Is "KILL TERFS", "RAPE TERFS" & "LOOK AT MY GIRL DICK" what we can except in the real world?
3. Is it "just" something said to women online or is it something that would be done in "analogue" female spaces?
It's a really important questions to ask, because not only do women not want to read stuff like this... we don't want to physically experience it either.
1/ I left Hollywood after 8yrs & moved to NYC. I needed to be away from the toxicity of Hollywood (& sexual harassment/assault) but I wasn't ready to give up. NYC was my middle ground. I needed a room to rent. I went on all the apps. Men were like "Do you need a boyfriend too?😉"
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Others were all "You can live here rent free if you walk around naked 😂" & I was like, "SERIOUSLY? CAN I JUST DO 1 THING WITHOUT SEXUAL HARASSMENT?!"
When I returned to 🇦🇺 & was in therapy recovering, my mum & I would chat. She had the idea for Giggle - as a roommate app.
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She wanted there to be a place for women to find accommodation without sexual harassment. Then I was like, "Oh, what about freelance work?" Then we started talking about all the areas women need a female support network, which was what I was simultaneously learning in therapy.
I created Giggle because I wanted women to have a "refuge" away from misogyny. I'd spent years in Hollywood being sexually abused. I knew my life would be better with an easily accessible female support network. I needed one. I knew I wasn't the only one. So I created one.
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I created Giggle not knowing that women in certain parts of the Western World were fighting just to be able to acknowledge females, without getting verbally abused or rights threatened.
When I educated myself, I realized exactly how vulnerable single sex spaces are.
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FYI it's called "giggle" because giggle is the collective noun for a group of girls. I know we often refer to each other as "girls" in casual settings. I do.
Also, the Giggle algorithm creates groups of up to 6 users all based on choice & consent.
Want to know what its like being a female CEO of a company you created & founded? In a meeting I called to voice my dissatisfaction of his companys work, where I was a client, I was berated to the point where I walked out. He sent this to the 1 man connected to Giggle. MY DAD 1/5
EMAILED MY DAD. Like my Dad, aka Giggle's very hardworking intern (his official title & role) who has zero authority over Giggle & me, was going to lock his 35 year old CEO daughter in her room until she had thought about what she had done. "Bad girl! Standing up to a man!" 2/5
I often wonder how many male founder/directors/CEO's get told they can't be CEO incase they can't answer a question (see pic) about the company they created. I also wonder if every male CEO ever created can answer every single damn question ever asked to him. 3/5
I respect pronouns & understand being misgendered can be triggering. I know what it's like to feel triggered. When recovering from sexual assault, domestic violence, harassment or plain olde misogyny, having a man/male presence around can be triggering even with no bad intent1
After sexual assault, it took me a long time to feel comfortable being around my DAD. Not because he had EVER done anything bad towards me. But because he is a man and men had violated and invaded me and my life.2
I don't have a choice in how misogyny is dealt to me. I can't Self ID out of it. I have to find the best possible way to cope with it and, little by little, do what I can to eradicate it3