I created Giggle because I wanted women to have a "refuge" away from misogyny. I'd spent years in Hollywood being sexually abused. I knew my life would be better with an easily accessible female support network. I needed one. I knew I wasn't the only one. So I created one.
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I created Giggle not knowing that women in certain parts of the Western World were fighting just to be able to acknowledge females, without getting verbally abused or rights threatened.
When I educated myself, I realized exactly how vulnerable single sex spaces are.
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FYI it's called "giggle" because giggle is the collective noun for a group of girls. I know we often refer to each other as "girls" in casual settings. I do.
Also, the Giggle algorithm creates groups of up to 6 users all based on choice & consent.
The name has a reason.
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I don't need a label to fight for the rights of women & girls.
I don't really care about "radfem" or "Gender Critical" labels. They're irrelevant to me. You could take the label of "feminist" away & I wouldn't care.
It wouldn't stop me fighting for women & girls.
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I care about facts & truth. So I just don't care about bulls***.
But I do care, a lot, about ensuring all women & girls have access to female only spaces. It's why Giggle is an app - women in developing countries have access to Smart Phones more than computers.
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I didn't create Giggle for people who self ID as women. I didn't create it for anyone except females. Females were always, naturally, in the forefront of my mind.
Indian, African, Pacific, European, American, Middle Eastern, Asian, Latin females. All females in the world.
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Due to the zeitgeist, I find myself also having to defend the world "woman" and the want/need of female only spaces.
I'm happy to do it. I'll debate anyone, anytime, about the need for sex based rights.
But I'm new to this debate. I stand on the shoulders of giants.
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I'm so grateful for the women who stand up for women.
For me, my "feminism" includes every woman in the world.
I defy any detractor to tell me I'm not inclusive. The onus is on you to prove how including 50% of the population is exclusive.
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Basically, I knew the need to create a female space, based off my experiences, without being educated on what is happening now.
Because females are oppressed and abused no matter what we're called.
I couldn't Self ID out of my abuse. No woman can.
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So I center females in my advocacy.
Because I see what is happening to females around the whole world, with varying degrees but no less urgency.
Also because I am female.
I love all people. Be who you want to be.
But I know females need a refuge.
That's all.
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1/ I left Hollywood after 8yrs & moved to NYC. I needed to be away from the toxicity of Hollywood (& sexual harassment/assault) but I wasn't ready to give up. NYC was my middle ground. I needed a room to rent. I went on all the apps. Men were like "Do you need a boyfriend too?😉"
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Others were all "You can live here rent free if you walk around naked 😂" & I was like, "SERIOUSLY? CAN I JUST DO 1 THING WITHOUT SEXUAL HARASSMENT?!"
When I returned to 🇦🇺 & was in therapy recovering, my mum & I would chat. She had the idea for Giggle - as a roommate app.
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She wanted there to be a place for women to find accommodation without sexual harassment. Then I was like, "Oh, what about freelance work?" Then we started talking about all the areas women need a female support network, which was what I was simultaneously learning in therapy.
Want to know what its like being a female CEO of a company you created & founded? In a meeting I called to voice my dissatisfaction of his companys work, where I was a client, I was berated to the point where I walked out. He sent this to the 1 man connected to Giggle. MY DAD 1/5
EMAILED MY DAD. Like my Dad, aka Giggle's very hardworking intern (his official title & role) who has zero authority over Giggle & me, was going to lock his 35 year old CEO daughter in her room until she had thought about what she had done. "Bad girl! Standing up to a man!" 2/5
I often wonder how many male founder/directors/CEO's get told they can't be CEO incase they can't answer a question (see pic) about the company they created. I also wonder if every male CEO ever created can answer every single damn question ever asked to him. 3/5
I respect pronouns & understand being misgendered can be triggering. I know what it's like to feel triggered. When recovering from sexual assault, domestic violence, harassment or plain olde misogyny, having a man/male presence around can be triggering even with no bad intent1
After sexual assault, it took me a long time to feel comfortable being around my DAD. Not because he had EVER done anything bad towards me. But because he is a man and men had violated and invaded me and my life.2
I don't have a choice in how misogyny is dealt to me. I can't Self ID out of it. I have to find the best possible way to cope with it and, little by little, do what I can to eradicate it3
As a writer who left the industry b/c I experienced so much sexual harassment & assault in meetings/etc by execs/producers/directors and had 0 support from my representation... I can't tell you how privileged I find leaving an agency over #JKRowling to be. 1
If I could articulate it, perhaps I would be a better writer... My experiences were in Hollywood, not the literary world. But I know I'm not the only female writer, writing about the female experience, who experienced misogyny & worse on a near constant basis. 2
#MeToo didn't even really change anything. #misogyny is still everywhere. #BelieveWomen is seemingly only acceptable if we're "taking down" straight men, which is absurd. We can't even be believed in our own experience. 3