Five minutes after I posted a thread ‘What is a Sociopath?’ I received this message. I’ve been given permission to share it. The person who wrote it and myself hope it can help anyone who has ASPD as well as anyone who has been impacted by it. 1/8
Message: “I was diganosed when I was 23 after a prison sentence resulting from drug charges. I have been in constant therapy ever since and it can be difficult to discuss due to people doing a quick google and then assuming I am an equivalent to Hitler or Manson. 2/8
I am lucky enough to be with a partner, whom I very much care for, who is a social worker so has been a god send for calling me out when I can't see what I am doing or the impacts. 3/8
I hope more is discussed about this, because in my personal experience there are more people like me than current diagnostic rates suggest. 4/8
Which is a damn shame for the safety of greater society, but also means little is done to alter us to be more acceptable members of society. 5/8
I hope others can figure out systems that work for them and are lucky enough to find acceptance. It is hard reminding yourself that your natural emotions/instincts are dangerous and damaging, a lot of self monitoring is required. 6/8
My partner has helped me leaps and bounds with this, including a card system when we're in public/social settings to help me around new people. 7/8
Again, thank you.
That is the first time I have ever seen it discussed beyond my family and therapist. 8/8
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I went to India some years ago to see the Dalai Lama at the Kalachakra Tour of World Peace. I met a local chef and we became pen pals. He has always balanced his work and caring for his parents. His father is blind. 1/4
During covid many people lost their jobs. He was one of them. They do not have the welfare system that Australia has. One night he phoned me in crisis. He had attempted to take his life. We got him to safety. He was able to recover. With permission to share he just sent this: 2/4
“Happy Holi my dear..
Thank you so much for Avery things....
And am So sorry for my silence 🙏..
Actually I had a good time ..
I had your very valuable money .
And I wanted to do my best ..
And I did..
Like I manage food for cancer patient ..
And I have work for them too , 3/4
So I posted a Thread: ‘What is a Sociopath?’ (attached). Five minutes later a man with ASPD replied (attached). He gave me permission to share the message to help others who may also have it as well as those who have been impacted. He also sent this: 1/13
“In my purely observational experience, I have found men are quite terrified of anything perceived as weakness. 2/13
I saw it a lot in prison, criminal culture has a very strong honour system. If someone speaks over you, bumps into you, walks in the wrong section of yard, etc then you are expected to act quickly and violently to uphold this weird sense of dominance. 3/13
What is a sociopath? “A sociopath is a term used to describe someone who has antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). People with ASPD can’t understand others’ feelings. 1/27
They’ll often break rules or make impulsive decisions without feeling guilty for the harm they cause. People with ASPD may also use “mind games” to control friends, family members, co-workers, and even strangers. They may also be perceived as charismatic or charming. 2/27
How is someone diagnosed as a sociopath? ASPD is part of a category of personality disorders characterized by persistent negative behaviors. The new edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) says that 3/27
I am writing to you because I am concerned about Australia’s refugee policy and human rights record. 1/20 #EnoughIsEnough#March4Justice
Australia appeared before the United Nations Human Rights Council for its Universal Periodic Review in Geneva on January 20, 2021. More than 40 nations questioned Australia’s policies toward asylum seekers and refugees. 2/20
The 2021 Human Rights Watch concluded: “It is disappointing to see Australia doubling down on policies that have caused immense harm to asylum seekers and are repeatedly condemned by the United Nations and other governments. 3/20
The Power of Vulnerability: “When I was a young researcher, doctoral student, my first year I had a research professor who said to us, “Here’s the thing, if you cannot measure it, it does not exist.” And I was like, “Really?” and he was like, “Absolutely.” 1/42 #March4Justice
And so you have to understand that I have a bachelor’s in social work, a master’s in social work, and I was getting my Ph.D. in social work, so my entire academic career was surrounded by people who kind of believed in the “life’s messy, love it.” 2/42
And I’m like, knock discomfort upside the head, move it over and get all A’s. That was my mantra. So I was very excited about this. And so I thought, you know, this is the career for me, because I am interested in some messy topics. I want to be able to make them not messy. 3/42
How to hold your Frog: What is bigger? Society or existence? Intelligence or the intellect? Existence or our own psychological structure? I think many in Western culture do not know the difference between ‘intelligence’ and the ‘intellect’. 1/27 #EnoughIsEnough#March4Justice
All life is intelligence. An ant, a butterfly, a tree, a rainbow, a child and even existence itself. Intelligence is primary. The intellect is secondary. The intellect is a tool. It is a cutting instrument. That’s why when someone is smart we say they are ‘sharp’. 2/27
It is like a sharp knife with a pointed tip. That why we say ‘he was right on point’. However, what happens when we use this sharp knife to love someone? A scientist knows a frog through means of dissection. He pulls it apart. Knows all it’s pieces. Then it is dead. 3/27