If your kid isn’t in the top 1% of sports by 3rd grade stop devoting your life to living vicariously through them.
Ok guys shit on me and nitpick the details if you want.

The point:

Too many parents are WAY to serious about sports and athletic success for their kids because of their own ego.

Stop being selfish. It’s not about you.
It’s obvious I hit a nerve.

Parents who devote thousands of hours and every weekend (and every last dollar in many cases) to sports for their kids are largely chasing an emotional desire.

A selfish, ego related desire.

Just like vanity “new idea” entrepreneurship.
I’m one of the ones who made it (I was a D1 all-american).

Sports are amazing. Problem solving, adversity. Socialization. Discipline.

So many life lessons.

I’m a big proponent of sports.

I’m against the way a lot of parents go about it.

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