1. IQ is the measure of one's ability to comprehend, solve maths; memorize things & recall subject matters.
2. EQ is the measure of your ability to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine, and considerate.
3. SQ is the measure of one's ability to build a network of friends & maintain it over a long period of time.
4. AQ is the measure of your ability to go through a rough patch in life and come out without losing your mind. It is a new paradigm and can be used to determine who will give up in face of troubles and may abandon their families.
Now to the very interesting & analytical part👇
People that have higher EQ & SQ tend to go further in life than those with high IQ but low EQ &SQ.
Most schools capitalize on improving IQ level while EQ & SQ are played down.
A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ & SQ even though he has an average IQ.
Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your charisma. Give in to habits that will improve these three Qs but more especially your EQ and SQ.
EQ and SQ make one manage better than the other.
Try not only to have a higher IQ but also to have higher EQ and SQ.
And to the parents, expose your children to other areas of life than academics. They should adore manual work (never use work as a form of punishment), sport, and art.
Develop their EQ, SQ, & AQ. They should become multifaceted human beings able to do things independently.
Prepare the children for the rough roads, do not prepare the rough roads for the children.
Today, I experienced one of the most unpleasant relationship conversation, this happened between my colleague & his GF.
It was a phone conversation which started at closing hour. It all started with a gentle tone with him repeatedly saying "Mabinu (I'm sorry)".
I'd to... 1/10
...chill for him as we oftentimes go home together in his car.
Earlier this week, he told me he was warned by a prophet not to argue with anyone and since then he has been avoiding quarrels.
At a point on the call, he stopped saying I am sorry & kept quiet. I could hear... 2/10
...the GF's angry voice from the other end of the call.
I signalled to him to drop the call, but he didn't notice.
We moved to the security's office to pick his car key. His countenance has already changed 😡, I signalled to him again to drop the call so he could...3/10
When I was in 200 level, I met Funke who joined my Dept through A-levels. One thing led to the other & we got talking. I started developing a special likeness for her.
She is a natural beauty, nerdy, well endowed (front & back 💯). 1/25
I summoned the courage to ask her out, but i was turned down. She said the best we could be is just friends as she is in a serious relationship.
Few months after, I tried again but still met a dead end. So I decided to drop it & agreed to be in the friendzone. 2/25
We were true friends with no strings attached. Though, we made out once but nothing after that. She was the complete package. She sleeps over in my room without things happening. We've seen ourselves more like brothers & sisters.
To avert yesterday's traffic, I decided to take Okada from Ojuelegba to Ketu. The rider said 2k, but if he is taking 2 people we will pay 1k each.
I decided to pair with another person just to cut cost. Biggest mistake I'll make in 2019. 😭
I should've just paid the 2k... 1/7
...and enjoy the ride without any "hard feelings". Ohhh Gawd 😭 (Tobi, stopeet, don't cry)
The guy that I paired with sat behind me. While in transit, he started sniffing my neck, in my mind I was like "am I smelling ?".
Next thing he whispered "You smell nice"... 2/7
I replied innocently with a smile "ohhh, thank you boss". I thought he was going to stop there. Next thing, guy said "what would it take him to be my real friend?" With more emphasis on 'REAL FRIEND'.
I was confused like "egbámi, from where to where? abelyfesrbrukni??? "..
3/7
After my secondary education, all i wanted to become was a Yahoo boy.
Seeing my peers doing the Y-Y level steady cashing out, wearing customized jerseys, nice sneakers, flashing belt, using Ipod/Mp3 players was so fascinating, so i really wanted to belong...
THREAD.
So one afternoon, I stole my grandma's money and went to Antis cybercafé down the street in Yemetu, Ìbàdàn.
Bought 30 mins and started surfing the net, not really knowing what I was doing but at least, I've learnt how to send mails & use yahoo messenger before i left Mayflower.
I tried combing some sites like Amazondirect, Tigerdirect, Blackplanet, Craigslist etc. But i couldn't find my way around till the mins got exhausted.