The book that changed my relationship with money - 'Your Money or Your Life' by @vicki_robin
Here's what I learnt π§΅π
πΌ Redefining work
We're not really making a living from work. We're making a dying.
In other words, we waste a lot of energy on our jobs in the hope they'll bring us meaning, joy, and happiness. Even though we can get this by spending more time with friends + family.
π° What is enough?
"Enough is like the horizon - always receding"
We often associate more money with increased levels of fulfilment. But at some stage the more we accumulate the less satisfaction we get - this is the fulfilment curve.
β‘οΈ Money = life energy
Money is what we exchange our life energy for. And our life energy is the precious hours of life available to us.
So everything we buy is equivalent to hours of life energy we've given up e.g an $800 iPad = 80hrs of life energy if our job paid $10ph
π3 key questions about life energy 1. Did I receive fulfilment, satisfaction + value in proportion to the life energy spent? 2. Is this expenditure of life energy in alignment with my values + life purpose? 3. How might this expenditure change if I didn't have to work for money?
The book is full of really interesting info about how we think about money, leisure, meaning and all that kind of stuff. So make sure you check out the full video π
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TL;DR
1. Our job doesn't really give us much fulfilment. 2. At some point, earning more money doesn't make us more satisfied. 3. Everything we buy is equivalent to hours of life energy given up. 4. Always ask: is this purchase satisfying or aligned with my values?
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π² Reading is like riding a bike - sometimes you want to enjoy the journey. Other times you just want to get to your destination as quickly as possible. Reading is the same: if the book is good I'll read it slowly and take notes. Otherwise I'll just blitz through it.
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π¨βπ» Action leads to motivation
I used to think you need motivation to get something done, but actually it's the other way around. You get stuff done, and the motivation naturally follows.
As @jeff_haden says: "Motivation is not the cause of action, it is the result of action"
π Stop thinking about motivation
Instead of thinking about motivation, I like to think in terms of discipline. When we are disciplined, we will repeat an action enough so it becomes a habit.
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π 1. "Happiness and freedom begin with a clear understanding of one principle: some things are within our control and some things are not"
Lesson - I don't set numerical goals in life as I can't control the result. Instead I focus on what is in my control: the process.
βοΈ 2. "It is not events that disturb people, it is their judgements concerning them"
Lesson - we often think negative emotions are caused by external events. But it's actually the story we tell ourselves about the event that makes us feel bad.
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Hereβs a full list of my favourite iPhone apps that I use pretty much every day π
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