I think it's time to do a thread of different kinds of sexy dude
1. the intellectual/philosopher type

get yourself a turtleneck or otherwise dress preppy

make a lot of prayer hands when thinking, like you're about to drop a rap album

smouldering intense gaze

poast bookshelf ImageImageImageImage
2. the guitar guy

if you have at least one cool action shot you can count on that one and then be derpy/silly with the rest, conveys that you don't take yourself too seriously

you could also write lyrics, wear hats, generally license to be "a creative soul", bard archetype ImageImageImage
some nuance here – you don't necessarily have to be entirely in any one archetype, you can sort of mix things up. you can be a musician who's goofy, or you can be a musician who's solemn. or a bad boy. whatever! you get to choose!!! embellish whatever is your actual personality ImageImage
3. the fit guy

there's many different types of fit guy you could be

should you choose a whole style of fitness just because of the desired vibes and associations? well a lot of ppl do this subconsciously to begin with

just sth to think about

see this is fun, life is an RPG ImageImageImageImage
4. the chef

c'mon

who doesn't want to date a chef

I'd date a chef

feed me sir

even if you look weird fuck it i'll try it if the food has a shot of being great ImageImageImage
i'm being sloppy with different classes of categories here but fuck it this is twitter you're not my boss I can do whatever I like

5. bad boy

the cliche exists because it works

not on everyone, but for the ladies who want one... ImageImage
ok i'm tired, taking submissions, what did I miss
I used to be the guitar guy, these days I'm like the jewelry/aesthetics/business owner/public speaker guy ImageImageImage

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in the 5+ years I worked for my ex-boss Dinesh, he constantly, casually-yet-intensely would ask me about my goals & desired outcomes

"what do you want to get out of this?"

"how will you measure your progress?"

"what's the next step?"

"what's the limiting factor?"
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read thru the Wikipedia pages of any five decades of history in the past 300 years it’ll disabuse u of this

it’s like expecting ~20 rounds of Texas holdem with 5 people & nobody ever has any hand (eg KK)
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guys

this is $10,000+ advice:

think about what kind of impression you want to make

don't invent a fake guy that isn't you

rather, find the coolest/hottest version of you out there and model your version of that
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some are into quiet, intellectual types

some are into outdoorsy types

some are into indoorsy types

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on bing I even seem to be ahead of wikipedia, lol
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