30 timeless Psychology hacks to make friends.
From the book 'How to Win Friends and Influence People .'
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From the book 'How to Win Friends and Influence People .'
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✅Part 1
1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.
✅Part 2
4. Become genuinely interested in other people
5. Smile
6. Remember that a person's name is the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4. Become genuinely interested in other people
5. Smile
6. Remember that a person's name is the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
7. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
9. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely
8. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
9. Make the other person feel important - and do it sincerely
✅Part 3
10. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
11. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
12. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
10. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
11. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say, "You're wrong."
12. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
13. Begin in a friendly way.
14. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
15. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
14. Get the other person saying "yes, yes" immediately.
15. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
16. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or her.
17. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
18. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
17. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
18. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
19. Appeal to the nobler motives.
20. Dramatize your ideas.
21. Throw down a challenge.
20. Dramatize your ideas.
21. Throw down a challenge.
✅Part 4
22. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
23. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
24. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
22. Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
23. Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
24. Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
25. Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
26. Let the other person save face.
27. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
26. Let the other person save face.
27. Praise the slightest improvement and praise every improvement. Be "hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise."
28. Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
29. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
30. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
29. Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
30. Make the other person happy about doing the thing you suggest.
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In 90 days, you will -
- Get rid of bad habits
- Lose the extra weight
- Get in control of your life
- Progress your personal mission
Put your life back on track👇
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