Let me start by saying I used to discredit depression before I ever felt it. In my mind it was stop wining and grow up.
It was easy to say at the time.
But I did have a phase that lasted about 8 months.
I was lonely, sad and bitter everyday. My childhood taught me to just push through painful times because they would be over soon but this felt like hell.
My mentality towards my feelings where, “stop being a pussy, you’re a little bitch”. Insecurity galore.
Today is my birthday so here’s a list of lessons I’ve learned in my 22 years (In no order of importance).
1.) Everyones life is a tragedy
2.) We are all really just alone together
3.) You can always count on yourself, if you can count on yourself
4.) Loyalty is extremely hard to come by
5.) Money will not buy you happiness
6.) Comparing yourself to others is preventing your real progress
7.) Do not neglect your mental health
8.) Look at people in their eyes and listen to them.
9.) In order to appreciate happiness you need to experience sadness.