After a few months break, I did a home visit again.
This is my favourite part of work. Visiting a child in their home for assessment/consultation/intervention is one of the most rewarding part of my work as a child psychiatrist in India.
Read on..
Possibility of violence and self neglect are two commonest causes of home visit in my work.
I have been called to talk a child out of locked rooms, toilets, homes, etc. Sometimes I succeed.
What I see in clinic is a sanitized, made up version of family.
Even a planned home visit lets me into their real world and gives wealth of useful clinical information that can help the child and family.
Today's visit gave me a glimpse into a child's clothes cupboard and I discovered something that proved to be a valuable asset....
His collection of just 3 hot wheels cars.
Family members didn't know about it. So there was no chance of I knowing about it in a clinic visit.
An interesting discussion followed that led me into his world of talking cars, intense wars, surveillance for trade secrets and a bunch of people who were trying to break into his room for theft. His world of delusions and hallucinations.
This changed the diagnosis completely and treatment plan changed drastically.
I could start appropriate medicine without need of forced admission to a hospital.
Forced admission to a hospital can be traumatic for a child and it is best avoided if safely possible.
This home visit did it for him and me.
His favourite school teacher accompanied me into his home and introduced me to him. My home visit would not have been possible without help from his trusted teacher.
With all the challenges that India poses for mental health professionals, we also have our benevolent angels :)
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Many parents want their kids to become doctors in India. Many kids also have similar dreams.
This thread can help you choose with better information about medicine and healthcare.
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Most children aspiring to be doctor talk medicine as -
Saving lives
Fighting disease
Giving access to healthcare to all people
Glamour
Finding pathbreaking ways of treatment
Money
Impressing friends and relatives
All honest answers. True.
Real life medicine is simple -
Working with ONE person at a time. A few or a lot everyday. Everyday of the year. All your working life.
It is intimate and emotional work irrespective of your clinical speciality.
For whatever reasons, "good touch-bad touch" has become buzzword with NGOs and Govt agencies.
They feel compelled to include "Good Touch" in every discussion about Childhood Sexual Abuse (CSA).
This is highly dangerous and may make children MORE vulnerable.
Reasons - 1. 85-95% CSA happens at home. From people depicted as "good touch" in various programs. 2. Abusers groom children for a considerable time before moving on with sexual assault. Grooming involves various techniques INCLUDING so called "good touch".
This picture shows one of the most poignant moments in doctor's/nurse's working life. The moment when patient passes away.
(I don't know name of the painter)
Now a days, most of us choose hospital as our place of transition. It is very rare for people to breathe their last at home in their own bed with dear ones standing by.
Most people have no experience of being witness of this moment of passing away. And for us medical professionals, unfortunately, it is a frequent experience.
A batchmate of mine settled in remote area of Maharashtra 25 years ago.
Financially well off family and intelligent chap. He had every opportunity to choose a more lucrative branch and city to settle down for practice.
He chose to go back to his family village. It was a Taluka place but really a largish village. His training as pediatrician in Mumbai was grossly inadequate to work in realities of rural Maharashtra.
He persisted. Became a successful practitioner.
In a recent phone chat he told me that he shut down his pediatric ICU and gave away all the equipment to whoever was willing.
I was surprised and pulled his leg about third wave and child patients of covid. And also about him abandoning the iminent battleground.