If you got a low attention span Skip it, you are not worth it
You see boys
Life is hard
it always complies with who you are
If you are weak it will Show that to you again & again
It will say on your face that you need to change you have to change
I always say about Keeping an eye on reality & shit
The real truth is
"The moment of biggest suffering will give you the greatest clarity"
Because you can't run away from it
You are so much in pain that you have to accept the things for what they are
And there is no running back from it
The biggest trait you as a Human can develop is
Being okay with being bad at things
A kid with fragile Ego can never accept that he is
-Poor
-Weak
-Not attractive
Because it is hard
Laughing at yourself is hard too
You have never been taught to do that
Society Never gave you the permission that its okay to suck at things
But Society is not gonna live your life
Society is not gonna eat shit for you
Its always you
So
The mindsets which I am giving you today are something which will take you far in life
Not only with Girls but with anything in life
Getting girls is all about selling yourself
Its sales
that's it
If you are good at it, you ll be good with humans
1. Become outcome dependent & independent
Outcome dependent so that you are driven & Competitive
Doing something for pushing your limits
Getting better every day because of the chase
Become independent
So that
-You are not emotionally dependent on your goals
-You are not deriving your value from those goals
-You can accept the fact that not always everything will be in your control
-You can accept the fact that You as a Man are complete in yourself
Don’t fake it till you make it
Just stack your wins & losses and keep moving forward
2. Don’t be needy
The one who wants it more will not get it
The one who deserves the most will get it
It is hard to not be needy
But by being it
You ll fuck it up even more
So just sit with yourself
Accept it
That no matter who she is
9 10 11
Or if she is the last girl on the planet
You ll never be needy
Because it creeps her out & universe doesn’t reward the needy
3. Embracing your own Flow
You have to do things that excite you
Will it look dumb to other people?
Yeah for sure
But you do it for yourself
To please yourself
To make yourself happy
To make yourself You
And this Flow of yours will distinguish you from other people