THREAD on Boarding Schools.
@NeilMackay story features in this morn’s @heraldscotland . It covers FOUR pages. FOUR. Full of voices recounting the horrific abuse they suffered in such institutions, at the hands of other children, facilitated by adults who knew. ImageImageImageImage
2. I contributed to this piece. My key point is this: “If a large proportion of our political leaders experienced this - especially early boarding, which creates emotional fragility - then does that mean our country is led by emotionally damaged people? If so, we ALL suffer.” Image
3. My colleague @SimonPartridge is also quoted. Simon co-authored with me the set of articles on ACES & attachment published this summer. He said this: “Boarding school created attachment problems & could lead to PTSD.” Image
4. PTSD. PTSD. “Psychopaths” is another way some of t older pupils are described in @NeilMackay article. Some of those “older pupils” could be in our government. Right now. Making policy on Universal Credit, Afghanistan, childcare funding. Their trauma affects US, not just them.
5. The consequences of childhood trauma ripple & ripple & ripple. We do not yet take it seriously enough. We find it difficult to gather the courage to truly look upon it. I thank @NeilMackay & all who told their stories in this article. You help us find the courage to SEE.
6. If you want to think abt boarding schools & society more deeply, @realdcameron & I have intervwd @SimonPartridge in our forthcoming series #TheIdeasHour , soon to be broadcast on @teacherhugradio . His father found it difficult even to shake his hand. Simon knows he suffered.
7. If you want to FEEL something of the distress that comes with boarding school for so many children, I don’t know a better recommendation than @tony2gammidge haunting animation. I talk about Tony’s work & courage in my book #TigersAndTeddies. vimeo.com/345490289
8/end. And if you want to read @NeilMackay full piece, here it is. But the @heraldscotland , like all newspapers, needs income. So if you are in Scotland, pop out & buy a copy. The story on Glasgow’s support for Afghanistan is heartwarming. xx heraldscotland.com/news/19529579.…

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I checked in this eve w/ @heraldscotland website, to see what kind of response @NeilMackay article was drawing from a non-Twitter crowd. I thought I'd share my insights.
@SimonPartridge @axrenton
heraldscotland.com/news/19529579.…
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THREAD: Boarding school
Today's @guardian contains an excerpt from the latest book soon to be published on the emotional devastation caused to so many boys by early boarding school -- boys that grow into the leaders of this country.
theguardian.com/education/2021…
2. "Several times a year, our attachments to home & family were broken. We lost everything – and we could cry if we liked but no one would help us. So, LATER IN LIFE, WHEN WE SAW OTHER PEOPLE CRY, WE FELT NO GREAT NEED TO GO TO THEIR AID." theguardian.com/education/2021…
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