I recently spoke with a college student who told me that he realized that if “I studied real hard, I could go to college for free.” It’s simple. Now he’s in college tuition-free. Someone should tell parents that academic scholarships are easier to get than sports scholarships.
Only 1-2% of college students get athletic scholarships compared to 8.1% for academic scholarships. So I get confused when parents say, “we put our child in sports early hoping for college scholarships.” I’m like, “yeah, but getting him/her to read more works much better.”🤷🏾♂️
This is what enrages me about how we view teen extra-curricular activities & how we help urban youth. There are few programs that focus on academic development compared to sports. “Inner-city kids need sports to pay for college.” No, they need reading, math, science, etc.”
If middle-class parents invested as much time and energy in academics as they do youth sports a much higher percentage of their kids would go to college with reduced costs or for free. Some American sub-cultures know this & then we complain when they take up enrollment spots.
What’s so fascinating about this student is that his parent’s income is really high & they could afford to pay more but they don’t have to. He’s also free to major in whatever he wants. He liberated himself by working hard in high school. Independence through academics! What!?🤯
Do high school students know this? That is, the easiest way to free yourself from your parents telling you what to do is to get a really high GPA & learn how to write well.😂 He’s so proud of the fact this his parents can’t pressure him to major in anything. “They aren’t paying.”
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"In modern American society, the most important factor for understanding the intergenerational transmission of religion to children is their parents"(91). At what point do we call churches "brainless" for not shifting their entire budgets to focus on equipping parents for this?
Namely, given the post-1960s decentering of institutions (denominations), & the fact that data shows that the greatest cause of kids adopting their parent's faith are daily conversations at home, what kind of church spends more money on youth/children's programs than parents?
If a church is not providing specific resources for parents to have daily theological conversations about the intersection of faith and the issues of life, is it a wise place to be? In the church, children adopt faith because of parents and basically no one else, period. Data!
The current COVID hotspot map. Stop racially pointing the fingers. #Conservatives blame minorities. #Progressives blame “white #Republicans.” You’re both wrong & silly. It’s more class than race. Lots of black, Hispanic, *and* white people don’t believe COVID/are anti-vacciners.
What do many anti-vacciners have in common? They tend to be of the same socioeconomic class. Elites progressives are also stupidly blaming “systemic racism” for minorities not being vaccinated. What? They are so out of touch. They obviously don’t know any lower-income minorities.
A black teenager in Brooklyn, NY recently told her white high school teacher that she doesn’t “believe in COVID.” That is, she doesn’t believe COVID is real. She’s in all black community & her views have nothing to do with “systemic racism.” Stop infantalizing black people.
When I hear a news story about a teen or college student murdering a female classmate, the first thing I do is search the family history. When I do, what do I find? Divorce! Without some type of intervention, divorced kids aren't "ok" & boys often act out & hurt others later.
It so frustrating because it's hard to get people to care. Children from broken homes need intact homes incorporate them into their stability, especially boys. Why? Because boys are more likely to act out in their teens/early 20s violently. Hospitality reduces crime!!
If your kids have have friends from divorced/single-parent homes, have them over at your house as much as possible to hang, game night, etc. Let them eat dinner with your family. When you go the movies bring the divorced kid with you, etc.
He thought she was pregnant so he killed her. I wish America was a culture that integrated procreation in the definition of sex so that it’s clear to men: “If you think you’re ready for sex, then you also believe you’re ready to be a father.” We are raising cowards.
UPDATE: This new information just brought me to tears. His dad's a wealthy doctor. He graduated from a Christian school. He dad divorced his mom. After the divorce, it seems like Brandon's life imploded. Now he's a murderer. HURT BOYS, HURT OTHERS. universitystar.com/news/breaking/…
Brandon is textbook case for what happens to boys who are hurt during childhood, esp. from divorce. I don't know the details of the divorce but his father remarried and started another family. This is such a terribly hard story.
One-third of pastors are obese/overweight. COVID exposed the real danger of obesity. I'm not sure the proper entry point: stewardship, gluttony, etc., but ignoring this topic in church life is putting entire communities at risk for all sorts of disease. baylor.edu/mediacommunica…
Insulin resistance is correlated with all sorts of cancers such as colorectal cancer, pancreatic cancer, endometrial cancer, breast cancer) as well as Type II diabetes, hypertension, dyslipidemia, cardiovascular disease. This is a real blind spot. ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/P….
"Diets high in refined sugars, for example, are harmful to the brain...worsening your body’s regulation of insulin, they also promote inflammation...and impaired brain function — and even a worsening of symptoms of mood disorders, such as depression." health.harvard.edu/blog/nutrition…
The issues at Bethlehem College and Seminary & Bethlehem Baptist Church are actually about (1) the limits of their local church ecclesiology & (2) that their version of Calvinism (as truncated) misses key elements of Reformed Theology, like natural law. christianitytoday.com/ct/2021/august…
When your Reformed theology is not first predicated on the doctrine of creation, it’s hard to discuss social issues. Cosmology is the pre-text not God’s sovereignty. Evangelicals reject cosmology as central & so they can’t figure out CRT, empathy, etc. amazon.com/Rediscovering-…
Cosmology is where the Reformed tradition reflected on social and cultural issues until the evangelicals removed that historic method by putting soteriology at the center saying the gospel is the start & the center. It’s not. For social issues, it’s creation. Read Van Groningen.