Trying to pick a woman to marry?
Do you trust this woman with your life?

If you can’t tell her your secrets and trust that no matter what happens she'll stand by you, then she's not the one
Once you understand that marriage is forever, and there's no going back, you'll be more intentional about your selection
Don't marry for looks, they fade

Don't marry for how you feel today, feelings change

Don't marry for her body, pregnancy changes that too

Don't marry for her potential, potential is nothing. Judge only from her daily habits.
Marry for her values
Marry for her judgment
Marry for her humor
Marry for her kindness
Marry for her femininity
Marry for her work ethic
Marry for her nurturing spirit
Marry for her habits
Marry for her ability to submit to you
Marry for her teachability
Marry for her ability to be prudent
Marry for her ability to support your goals
Marry for her ability to listen to you
Marry for her wisdom
Marry for her mental toughness
Marry for her positivity

For men, these are the things that make it easy to love her till you're 90
This is the woman who will raise your kids.

- This is the woman your daughters will be like.

- This is the woman who will make your house into a home.
Don't marry her because you think you can change her. No one changes in marriage, they only become more of who they are.
Most of all, work hard to improve yourself because you can only marry a high quality woman if you're a high quality man.
When you find a good woman, love her and she'll respect you.

When you find a good woman, be ready to provide and protect her. So she can be present in raising your kids.
When you find a good woman, take your time to assess her. Don't be in a hurry, make sure she's not faking it.

Take a step back to pray about it. Clear your head, give her some space.

And when the only response you get after praying about her is peace, then that's your wife.
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