19 Psychological Ways to Become a Professional Lover.
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Movies: Doctor Zhivago (1965), The English Patient (1996), Sophie’s Choice (1982), The Bridges of the
Madison County (1995), Iris (2001), My Fair Lady (1964)
Songs: The Rose (Bette Midler), Isn't She Lovely (Stevie Wonder)
Madison County (1995), Iris (2001), My Fair Lady (1964)
Songs: The Rose (Bette Midler), Isn't She Lovely (Stevie Wonder)
1. Express (verbally and / or non-verbally) to your loved ones that no matter what happens, your love
for them will remain unconditional.
for them will remain unconditional.
2. Express your love through physical gestures (hugs, kisses, cuddling, giving a gentle massage).
3. Focus on the implicit motives of your loved ones, rather their behaviors.
4. Explore and appreciate the strengths of your loved ones.
5. Arrange a date with your mate that celebrates both of your signature strengths.
6. Express your love through gifts. When possible, create gifts yourself.
7. Always celebrate days or occasions that are mutually important.
8. Express your love creatively (e.g., through a poem, notes, sketches, photographs of an important
place, event or situation which reminds you of mutual love).
place, event or situation which reminds you of mutual love).
9. Help your loved ones with a self-improvement plan (e.g., a new class, weight loss, exercise, a new
career).
career).
10. Plan and host a dinner party with your significant other.
11. Reunite at the end of the day and discuss how it went.
12. Attend a concert, theatre, movies, or go dancing with your loved one.
13. Engage in a favorite activity (e.g., hiking, going to an amusement park, biking, walking in the park,
swimming, camping, jogging) together.
swimming, camping, jogging) together.
14. Attend your child’s sporting events or performances (recital, play, etc) together.
15. Go out (without kids) for brunch or dinner.
16. Help your loved ones plan their future by helping them identify their signature strengths. Then,
collaborate to design a future based on their signature strengths.
collaborate to design a future based on their signature strengths.
17. If you want to help your loved ones, first consider their strengths. Design your help around their
strengths.
strengths.
18. Tape record your parent’s earliest recollections and share them with your children.
19. Make a family blessing journal in which everyone writes good things that happen to them daily.
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